Journey In Life
In life, we meet many different people. We explore many different things and encounter many sweet and ridiculous things. Some may be sweet as honey, while some may be bitter as bitter melons. However, no matter if it sweet or bitter, it helps to improve and make your life better. Why do i say so? Well, sweet memories and experience makes you remember better and the sweet memories linger endlessly in your head making you smile like a kid who got a whole bag of chocolate bars. Meanwhile, bitter memories too, lingers in you head and make you feel sad and people sometimes referred it as stains in our life. However those stains are the one who taught us a good lesson on how to handle our self better and how to act and make decision in our upcoming events in life. That is why i said, bitter or sweet, they are the ones that make us who we are today.
In our creator's book, it was already written there that we will have a different path in life. The path we walk may seems similar with other people, however it is slightly different some how. Some may experience life with less hardships while some may not experience harsh hardship in life. For what ever that happens in our life, the pains that we had to endure, the tears that we had to shed, remember, they are the stepping stone to make our life better. Life will be boring if only laughter exist. But with the existence of tears and pains, life may be more interesting. Anger and annoyance brighten up our life too. They are the colors that make our book of life more interesting. One habit that humans possessed is the habit of comparing our life with the life of others. My dear, please stop that. Comparing our life with others may hurt you further and ma be discouraging in your life. Why do you need to compare yourself to others when you have God, the best planner of them all? He knows what is the best for us and He slowly arrange the path of our life. He gave us just enough in life. So, instead of asking why you don't have the life like your friends or family, why not you start be thankful and continue in seeking for a new day in this journey of life. A Dahlia flower may not be the same with a Tulip flower. However, those flower are still pretty that captivate people's attention. Same goes to our path in life. We may not walk down the same lane, but our purpose of living are mostly the same, to live to the fullest without any regrets. There are times, we didn't get for what we had been hoping for. We always faced failure in life and some broke down and fall to the pits of depression. Hence, possessing a strong and positive mind are important to ensure we are always on track. Some of us may be mentally weak, but doesn't mean we will always be sad until the end of time. Try to find someone you can talk to, who can understand you without judging and provides you the strength to heal and be happy. Life, it is a tough journey, but you are tougher for you manage to conquer it.
In every human beings, especially girls, we all wished for a smoother life. In terms of relationship, some of us wish for a fairy tale and perfect life. For example, the girls will wished for a muscular partner, strong or domineering. The boys may look for girls who have smooth and fair skin chicks with a killer curve. Comics and stories usually influence our bubbly fantasies. My dearest friend and companion, don't keep on living in our dreams. We may get people are way different from what we expected. No matter whom we get, pretty or handsome, tall or short, smart or not, we have to accept them as they are. The more we resist the more it will persist and will drive you absolutely crazy. But, by accepting things, you are opening up a space in your life for something new to happen in your relationship. Our partners may share different opinions from us, make mistakes and create a mess, have many flaw and some even have a dark past. If you want to have a peaceful and better relationship in life, love them, embrace them and even infuse yourself with them. Tolerance among each other are highly needed in order to ensure the relationship stand strong. Boys, lower down your egos and girls please control your emotions. If you and your partner start up a fire, try to find a solution to put the flames and not spark the fire up by adding more oil. Sure, there are misunderstanding that happens every time, especially in married couples, however, this fights are the ones that make our bonds stronger. Remember, no matter how different your partner is from you, they are still a part of you. They are your other half that makes you complete, who holds half of your wings to fly further. Acceptance is what makes us succeed in life, especially in relationship.
Our days on earth are numbered. Anytime, we may be called back to return to the home of our creator. We never know when will we depart from this world. Hence, why not live our life to the fullest. Laugh like an idiot you're happy. Cry like a baby when you are sad. Control your anger when you are upset. Be yourself and don't change just because you wanted to impress someone. Find your purpose in life, hate less and love more. Sure, life may not always be a peaceful ocean for there are times the wave may be harsh due to the storms. But hey, without these storms, how are you going to build a better ship to sail? You will sail further when you encounter a strong wave. And to who ever is reading this post, please be kinder to yourself. Don't push yourself too hard and don't suffer too much. Give yourself time to heal. Let yourself grow slowly. A flower doesn't grow in a day. They take time. You are a flower in this life garden. Give yourself time to grow. You will get to the top one day, you will get what you wished for and most of all, you will be a better person who will live their life to the fullest. Have faith in our creator, for He knows what's best for us. Don't rush and just stay on our own pace. You will be fine my dearest.