How to solve complex issue of life peacefully
Imagine you, being class monitor, are responsible to conduct the morning assembly on a particular day in your class. The student, assembly news presenter, is not able to present in school because he suddenly falls ill. The school bus, by which your class teacher travels daily, breaks down on the way and he is also unable to attend the assembly. There are only fifteen minutes in your hand to begin the assembly and situation has been complex. What will you do in these circumstances?
Will you take a help from another teacher or other students of your class? You must have to find out some creative ideas so that the assembly can begin on time.
It is not easy to solve hard problems. It always becomes a big challenge for concerned people. You face this frustrating situations many times in your life. To solve tough problems you should always listen to each other patiently and try to make it a peaceful talk. It is said that tough problems will not always be in your life but tough people will. So you should simply choose a peaceful way to talk more successfully.
Although you can easily solve most of the problems that you are facing in life, there are numerous problems that are not possible to solve easily. The nature of these kinds of issues and social perspective of some people tries to find out exact reason of the problem, causing the situations tough to be solved.
You always think that your way of talking and listening is good and enough to solve difficult problems but in reality, it fails to overcome the situations because your common way of talking and listening force others to follow your point of view. You never try to understand that there could be some other possible ways that you apply to solve the difficult problems. Therefore, the complex issues become more complex to be solved.
If people who truly involve with the problem are not allowed to express their viewpoint on the issue freely and creatively, the tough problems can’t be solved peacefully.
How then to solve tough problems?
There is a solution to solve the tough issue. You must listen to others voice and try to understand their emotions, their viewpoint, what they want and what they think. The more you are open to them, the more you are close to solve the problems. If you don’t have a feeling of sympathy for them, then create it within you because this is the only way which helps you solve the tough issues peacefully and honourably.
Based on Adam Kahane's book
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great thinking @mgibson. upvoted :)