being honest always has a cost, no doubt... but being fake is much more taxing on ourselves.
Now, in the name of honesty, we can't default to being brutal(im not saying you are), that's not a requirement. But, the idea is to liberate ourselves from facades.
Like I mentioned, it will have a snowball effect. We will ended up hurting not only ourselves but others. Also I agree, it's better to liberate ourselves and just feel free.