Who is responsible for giving sex education to your child? The porn site or you?

in #life6 years ago

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1. Child sex education, girls' cultural shock

My whole body was still in severe cold. Brenda say! His son-in-law grade Luis is my son's colleague. My Filipino friend Brenda has taught her daughter, 'Do dating with boyfriend, there is no problem!' But be careful about getting pregnant! '

In our time, whom we called love or love, nowadays children say 'crush'. My eldest son often returned from school after reading the grade-grade-crashes for someone who was new to his class. Who was the one who propose Who has re-projected - all this. Nothing can be concealed, from this order, he has been scolding back from school and speaking all about it.

One day he said, and the story of Brander daughter Luis. Lewis had a crossover against Colombian son Angel in his section. I asked my son Manan, 'How do you know?'
And said, 'Everyone knows. They hang out after the holidays. '

I went to Brenda to give the signal. And that surprised me, the essence of it is - her eleven year old daughter is loving, she is not so worried about her, her thinking girl is careful about sex!

My son's two friends' mother and father have always been in schoolgate with me. We return home together. They went a little ahead by seeing me speak to Bender. I told them a little earlier by leaving Brenda. Mita and puppets are astonishing like me. Only eleven years old children are ours! Mother's parents are in such a misery about their classmates! There was no digestion!

In English it is called 'cultural shock'. Getting knowledge of eleven-twelve-year-olds sex is a kind of cultural shock for Bengali mothers like us. In this country, after having secured a grade in most schools, classes are organized on the students' sex. This is part of the Health Class. The City Education Department has a separate budget allocation for this. The physical changes of boys and girls, old age: maternal, reproduction, how to take contraceptives, how to protect yourself - are taught in this class.

White-black-hacian children living in America begin to fall in love from the age of eleven-twelve. Here physical relationship is not separated from love. For that reason sex education classes are done through video! There is no complexity in children coming from different cultures, so the school authorities want permission from the mother to give written consent. Many mothers do not want to allow. They are afraid, their youngest child will know at this age! Then it will get worse. This is a big push for conservative society and mothers growing up in the family system.

Some people can handle that shak Nobody can. Those who can not, they are later on. As the son of another son of my son said, his three daughters. She did not allow the first daughter to participate in the school's sexual education class. In his language, it was wrong for him. Why was wrong? Because he had to teach everything after the girl. She did not do this mistake for the second daughter. The little girl falls in love with my son.

Among the mothers here are obviously three percent. Someone wants to give sex to a sex education class, nobody wants to give it and third party is hesitant. I suggested to my son's other friend's mother. He gave his first child in this class already. He told me why you would not give your son. What do you think, if you do not know anything? He will know right! But it will hide! And learning about sex can not be a better place than a school.

My friend said, most mothers think that only the girl is subjected to sexual harassment, this idea is not correct, the children are also children. One of his brother's eight-year-old son said about the child. The guardian of his brother's apartment, who used to harbor sexual harassment on a regular basis. The boy's son did not understand anything. Can not say clearly. From the middle it started to become very silent.

Thus, many children suffer from depression and depression due to ignorance or misunderstanding. Those horrific memories have been running away from him throughout his life. Again, children may be more aware of the distortion of their parents. Most of us parents ask the child to be friends with a gay person. Like a boy, with boys, if girls are girls, then mix them with girls. Nobody says this way in this country. Rather than reverse it. They teach both boys and girls to think about friendship.

The children are very aware of the fact that they do not feel attracted to any of the co-workers. Because it's a big problem here. It can happen in our children too. I know of a mother, who always said to her boy who would not mix with a girl. Do not talk Stay away from fourteen hands. The boy started to become shy day by day. Seeing the boy's shyness, his sons liked him and got involved in sex with him. Once the boy's mother found out, the sky fell on her head. They went from America to Bangladesh in fierce fear.

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2. Responsibility for sex education is to the child

My son John asked me, 'Mother son sex with mom or father sex with daughter' is it ever? I was not surprised. Just told me where it was from. Said on YouTube I remember, his next day was a difficult test in school. It taught me a lot of time apart from teaching. In the story, what sex is, some parts of the body are useful, whom is my religion forbidden to sex, why marriage came? What is sex, why is it to take birth control system? Why is it illegal? Why do not let the mother bathe together with the sister anymore, why does Maria do not let the door stop playing now, why the mother or the aunt, when janifa, nora, angles are clamped with angles, when the mother is asked to play, why mother wants to visit Stay with your sister, you have to speak with the distance between yourself and others, whether it is psychological or physical ... Why did we do so much and why did we talk about that day. It's not the first time that our story was not the first time. There have been many times before. On that day, john's father was also with us. We saw four live together a normal delivery case together on Youtube. The mother whispered while crying in front of my john pants, the mother said, I am afraid mother. After being normal, it was so difficult, why did the sister bring her mother? If I did not say that, then where would I get my little little cute queen babu? And maybe for the first time, John did not hesitate to ask this question.

These are being shared a little earlier or have made a lot of exorbitance, more often than not they have ever had differences with their father. But I told him that my mother-in-law was the mother of Oj Para Gaya. She had no educational knowledge to share with her son. Tell me how long did you come to your house to eat and eat the body of a colleague, a patient or a girl in the road, did you make jokes? Can we respect the words and thoughts of both of us all day? Is not it important for counciling to grow from childhood? How many of us have been argued in the way of running, how many ego has been created, how beautiful the time has passed. What is the harm if you correct some mistakes? Your Medical Science and My Social Science There is little to do in community medicine, but a major issue of social science is repeatedly skiping. Remember the words of cloudy sky movie From there, people have taken as much education as AIDS, and they are more interested in sex than the cinema hall.

Talking about sex education and respect for women, some people like Chatti have always heard people but do not mean it. Family education is important. You or your mother-in-law are not shortening, but the feeling of consciousness is to make mother. Otherwise, how big is the position holders of women women? How many times have you asked me to leave the job fearing that I can not save myself from the greedy eyes! You give a mobile-tab and say you do not see anything on YouTube, can you believe it? And they have learned how much in the game. Also accept our Generation Gap, Cultural Gap with them. If you want to know more then try them first. So that the new device, the new theme, the new things they take away, and the bad ones. I believe that there is no balance if the good thing is not mixed.

If you do not have the fish feathers, then the fish will be rotted. But when buying fish, can I buy fish without scratches? During cooking, the fiber is cut, we have to choose. What is the harm in the matter with them? The john's father does not raise the word, but he ended up saying, "What is the profit!" There were also some phosphansanio. I used to challenge the way my chosen child was raised, to build a good man. This means that it can not be a good result and it can also be bad. For example, the boy girl in extreme curiosity could have more trouble But we all remember this danger. Being a mother, I'm trying to make john puppet at least mentally in such a way that even if it is unjust or crime, parents should share it with me frankly. At least they could help him out of the family. Do not be alone. This is what happens to john's father or me. How many times have we returned to misguided? When she came home after crying alone, she (john's father) came and told me to go back and think again. What, why did not she ask for crying for some time and never I also told him how many things he had said, and there was no happiness in the way.

Kate does not understand much yet, but john wants to know. I mean, this is a difficult family court. Whenever he has discovered our words, this quarrel is sometimes a part of our happiness. I am very surprised. In fact we sometimes quarreled with the reason. Apart from the need, there is a habit of quarreling between us. Let the boy learn to understand quite well. I used to react to my father's brawl, I thought I would leave the house. I can say that I am able to quarrel with peace? The boy ruled, "that means there is a limit to quarrel". John's ideas were that mother might have been born a mother. The mother who was once a little girl like Kety (sister of john), how did she grow up from there and once she became a mother, she did not want to believe it. Especially john, before I was my son, I have been married to my father here before I was at my father's house. It sounds strange to him. Then we got a nest, then mother john and kety have grown from baby to our own house. Before that I had never been a father, nobody knew anyone, we had no separate living and were surprised to hear where Doraemon went with the time machine. After a while back to the address said no ... all lies. Her father cut off Tipponi in her words, "Yes, I brought your mother for a few days. I will bring my mother back again. The new mother will not tell to read, she will not boast, she will not only care but she will love her. " Then after my father left, he asked me slowly, was not you really in our house? I used to say before John that I had a life that I did not see john like when I was not there, john would have a life that I would not see. Everyone came alone and everyone alone will have to leave. How do we prove ourselves in the middle of the middle period ... and many more. My son still did not lose the simplicity. The mother will die and she will cry alone to hear. I'm also going to die. I got up and said to the pest. There are many other things that do not mean that nobody's life stops anyone's life. What would you prove to me if you died for me? Rather, if you do a very good job of survival in the world, Allah will tell you the reward for your son, and I will give it to you. I know john will lose the simplicity over time. But you can not be at least inhuman to teach mom every moment. I do not want my child to be raped, whether in the house! If the boy's father finds himself in the new mirror after seeing his son grow, then it is not even less ... So I will say and the stories of our mother son will continue.




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