What we were told when we were kids.

Don`t run, go slowly, eat up all, wash your hands clean your teeth, keep silence, speak up say hello, say sorry, come here, get lost,  play alone, don`t bother me, be careful not to fall, that will be worse for you,  you can`t, you are too small, I will do it myself, you are  quiet big for it, go to bed, get up, I am busy doing my job, play on your own, keep away from the sun, go for a walk, don`t speak while your mouth is full.

What we wanted to hear:  I love you, you are handsome, I am happy to know you,  Let`s talk about you, how do you feel, are you afraid?  Why don`t you want it,  you are very nice and kind, tell me about your feelings, are you happy, It`s nice to hear you smiling, cry if you want,  say what you want to,  why are you suffering, what troubles you I trust you, I am having a good time with you, I want to speak with you,  It`s interesting to listen to you, I like you exactly like you  are, It`s great to be together, tell me if I am not right.

Where are plenty of people around you eager to hear some important words.