"If you want to be happy, be happy."

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"If there are happy people on this earth, why do not they scream, why do not they appear in the streets to shout their joy in crazy and unceasing screams? If there is happiness in the world, it must be communicated." Emil Cioran

All people have asked this question. He, the happy man, the man who lives the most beautiful life, exists. The one who is quiet, has a family and does not worry. Are we like that? Are we happy too? What is Happiness? It's an interesting unknown

You think you can find the answer; If you find it, do you think you can decipher it, know how to cherish it?

At this point, nobody is in a state, no one has the spiritual, mental state to manage to preserve and cherish a response of such great value.

Some believe that happiness is a great idea, a remote ideal, beyond our power to acquire it. After these people, true happiness can not be achieved in this life. These people are part of the category of those who have quit looking for the truth, the answer.

One of the great wise men of Antiquity, Solon, believes that no one is happy as long as he lives, for at any time he can defile his misfortunes. The question is: how can we deal with happiness without having gone through misfortunes? Happiness is very close to misfortune. If we did not suffer, we could not feel happiness, because we did not know the pain, how could we say we know the joy? If we get rid of all the soul problems, of the mind, in order not to suffer, what did we solve at that moment? You never know what happiness is or what sadness is the feelings of our soul

"Happiness = A state of intense and full satisfaction."

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The definition of happiness is as simple as people are not interested in. They are more interested in how they get it.

For some to be happy is to live on the highest heights of satisfaction. For others happiness represents the absolutely divine state of lying and reconciliation

But if God is one of us? Or even more, each of us? If, when it comes to personal happiness, can you just get it to taste because you are the only one who knows your own recipe? There is no standard prescription of feelings that together lead to happiness.

It seems that only some of us know the secret of happiness, only this part has come to realize that this feeling has the direction from the inside to the outside and not the other way, how illusory you could think.

In my opinion, it is enough to realize that when your inner world is in a lesser light, everything that is out there is cloudy and dark, When the sun has risen inside of you, the world It looks like an infinity of times more beautiful, brighter and brighter. It's like, you, the photographer has found the perfect light. The device is up to you and you can learn to work with umbrellas, to process your photos with a simple act of will. Without the icons, the picture does not exist, photography is a failure, sometimes it is not even clear, because you let it work alone.

I can not find a better analogy for what it means to be the master of your own life vision, I can not find a reason why you did not choose to be the artist of beauty right now.

As you are responsible for your own artwork, you are responsible for your own happiness.

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How does your life's chart look like today? You may find yourself so easy to find an infinite number of reasons for your miscarriage. You could say you have no talent, or you do not have the necessary resources, but both of us know it would be just an excuse. Because somewhere deep you know that you really are the one who chose to live like that, that nothing really happens without your contribution.

Some people seem happy: probably because they do not even think about it. Others make plans: "I will have a husband, a home, two children and a house in the country." As long as the thoughts keep them occupied, they are like the bulls in search of the Reverend: they do not think, they just keep moving. They manage to buy their desired car - sometimes even a Ferrari - and I believe that this is the meaning of life, so I never put the question. And yet, despite their success, their eyes betray a sadness that they themselves are often unconscious.

I do not know if everyone is unhappy. I only know that the world is always busy: working oversold, taking care of children, husband, career, university degree, why he will do tomorrow, why he will have to buy, why not need to Feel inferior and so on.

Brazilian writer Paulo Coelho mentioned: "Few are the ones who have ever confessed to me:" I am unhappy. " Most say, "I'm fine, I've managed to get everything I've ever wanted." So I ask again, "What makes you happy?" And they answer, "I have everything I can dream of a person - a family, a home, a job, and health." And I again ask, "Have you ever considered whether all this is the meaning of life?"

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They answer, "Yes, that means". And I insist, "So the meaning of life is given by the work, the family, the children who grow up, and then leave from you, a wife or a husband who turns with love from time to friend. But someday the work is over. What will you do then? "

They answer: there is no answer. And change the subject. But there is always something hidden beyond words: a business owner who wishes to conclude the business he always dreamed of, the master of the house that wants more independence or more money, the fresh graduate who wonders whether he has chosen his career or The career he chose, the dentist who wanted to be the singer, the singer who wanted to be a politician, the politician who wanted to be a writer and the writer who dreamed of being a peasant. "

Finally, I remember the words of Jorge Luis Borges: "I will not be happy anymore, but it does not matter, there are so many other things on this world."

What is Happiness?

Everyday life has lost its color, not in the sense of existence, but in the sense of perception of the world, man being dominated more by what is palpable, material, by the force of science and technology, immersing himself in a Big unknown images, memories, hdd, bit, Internet, viruses, etc. So if we process ideas and put them together with those of Spinoza, we can say that we live in a world dominated by erroneous ideas, distorted by everything that is reality for us, being surrounded by ignorant people in a world Unknown and yet with so many things to offer. Science today deals with everything that should be of concern to us as human beings, albeit to a lesser extent; So we could take a small step for the others, perhaps unnoticed, but so great for our spirit and mind. We start to surprise the information and the images that pass before our eyes every moment, we will always be in a state of lucidity, our new philosophy of life would keep us in a "creative state", becoming able to work With our own concepts, to be masters of unique, personal ideas. Taking on ideas from philosophers such as Plato, Spinoza, Russell and merging them we notice that by overcoming this obstacle of man's handcuff in his own world, we overcome ourselves, pass over the lethargy of a trivial life, and see everything in a New soothing light, we would be caught up in a new form of wisdom.

Life, like philosophy, is a vast horizon, with its beauties so simple at first glance, but so abstract. As Plato also said, "we are participating in the show of stars, the sun, the heavenly vaults," and this gives us "the impetus of the research of the universe"; Philosophy is like an awakening from the state of dependence to the needs of life, and we are amazed at what we may know and at the same time urge toward the path of knowledge, more and more eager to know. What? No concrete answer has been found yet, but it is all about trying and understanding with our own conscience everything that revolves around us, turning away from negative egocentrism and sharing the successive discovery to others: "what is life, death," " Why are they there? "," If we are happy or not? "

"If you want to be happy, be happy."
Lion Tolstoy

"Happiness is to never stop thinking who you are."
Palmer Sondreal

"If we try to stop being happy all the time we can feel good enough."
Edith Wharton

"Nobody really cares if you're sad, so you could just as well feel happy."
Cynthia Nelms

"Man is inclined to count his troubles, but not his joys. If he were to take account of the events of life, he would realize he had enough reason to be happy."
Dostoevsky

"What a beautiful life I could've had! I just had to do that sooner."
Colette

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Nice article there is alot of sadness in the world, but there is alot of happiness. Jesus our savior is our joy and then there is family. Life is short so enjoy it.

Thank you so it is, life is too beautiful and it is worth living with happiness.

make the choice:), thanks for the reminder

Thank you to be happy @doitvoluntarily

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Excellent post!! thank you for sharing

Happiness, people dont realise they are till they arent. Upvoted and followed.

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