I offer you the freedom to walk through my soul...

It's nice to feel the freedom, just how nice it is to feel the attachment. It's nice to be alone, but at the same time to be in love and to give yourself to one person. This is freedom.

I see more and more often that freedom in relationships is misunderstood, and those who offer it do nothing but distance themselves, escape from everything that would mean a relationship in the true sense. They are afraid and so censor their own feelings. Men run out of gentle words and gestures, while the woman runs away from the idea of ​​possession. It scares so much that he will lose his identity, and he will feel weird at the moment when he gets a glimpse or he will have to refuse the attention of others. She wants to be free but at the same time protected and loved, listened to and understood.

The same goes for men, they want to have their own freedom, but at the same time they long for the warmth of a woman to feel almost not only when they put their heads on the pillow, but also when they wake up in the morning. They also need to get out with the boys without being arguing when they return, as well as romantic evenings with their loved ones.

When we understand all this we will not destroy our own freedom any more, but we will understand it. We will not build walls around us, but bridges to bind us. We will understand the freedom offered to each other as a journey into the soul of the other. We give the person next to us the freedom to travel through our soul, being sure to find many parts touched by the past, but that will help them to heal faster. We give it the freedom to say a step at every intersection of the streets of our soul and we trust that it will want to go further.

It is so beautiful to understand freedom and to offer it. Let us understand that in a relationship as in life there are ups and downs, that sometimes we feel that we want a deep relationship and sometimes there is a desire to be alone. There are times when we focus so much on our partner, followed by times when we feel the need for retrieval, and then again come to desire to give your loved one to the whole. Let's not forget that the desire for love is often born in moments of loneliness. The relationship is like a melody, in which, to get back to the most sublime moment, it takes a break, not a pause of love, but a break of self-retrieval.

Learn to build a mature relationship between you and build walls, because you will start to feel choked, you will hinder each other, you will suffer, and everything that will hold you together will be the fear of loneliness. Do not choose this path and understand the freedom of the one next to you in order not to conclude that you feel better alone.

After a while you will reap the desire to share what you feel with someone else, the rhythm of your heart melody will grow again in intensity and you will want to be listened to by someone. How about if we understand all these aspects and we understand the freedom in a relationship properly before destroying what we built?

Learn to love and listen to your both your and the other song and to understand that when the one next to you will want to remain alone, it does not mean that he rejects you. In fact, it was your love that really made her take a few moments of loneliness.

Everyone has to offer the other moments of retrieval, moments of freedom in the true sense of the word. It is always in the soul of man that there will be a struggle between giving to the person next to him and discovering his own person. All we have to do is feel the pace of our song, of our partner and of the common one. Each couple has a melody that the hearts vibrate together, but there is that own melody you just understand.

If we understand this freedom then we will build bridges between us, not walls.

The man is free and just by loving him unconditionally the one next to us will have him all his life, otherwise you will just keep him out of the way. It will temporarily defer, you will delay it, but you will not be able to stop it.

Sincere love is the one that gives you the freedom you need and helps you to be yourself all along, it gives you both the chance to feel like a soul in two bodies, and the freedom to seek and find yourself Yourself.

7 august 2015 · by Horia · in Articole, Despre oameni