Thank you for understanding. The part about helping the one who doesn't want any help isn't the correct version. I prefer asking for help when I need it, and either I know exactly what I actually want or I will ask for a second opinion/experience. This is my way, and I do things the same in real life too. Increasing my account, gaining more influence isn't my main aim- having an outlet for my writers side is.
Once again thank you for understanding. Take care and thank you for everything you have done for me. Plus this was a good lesson.