Wow a a very nice post, actually it has something to do with discipline and consistency during your childhood days that is why it is essential to teach a child as early as you can the word "patience" because when you are able to teach that to your child everything else will follow not onlyin their later life they will get to benefit what you instill in them ....we all need discipline to be able achieve all the fundamentals and it is best thaught during the early years of childhood.