5 Keys to Creating Unconflicted Behavior
Many times in life we can question our resolve in the decisions we make and friends and family can sometimes cloud our thoughts with doubt.
When I moved to another country without knowing anyone or speaking the language or even having a job lined up, at 40 years old, my friends and family thought I had lost it. As it turned out, it was the best decision of my life.
Here I am about to do it again and again and I'm confident it will all work out fine. I've learned not to over think things too much and to just go for it. Decide what you want, make a move and don't look back. That's a recipe that has always worked out for me.
It didn't always work out the way I planned it or on my schedule and more often than not it worked out even better than I could imagine. Knowing the main purpose I'm trying to achieve, staying unwaveringly focused on the outcome while remaining flexible has always worked for me.
I believe it was Faust who said:
Some of our important choices have a timeline. If we delay a decision, the opportunity is gone forever. Sometimes our doubts keep us from making a choice that involves change. Thus an opportunity may be missed.
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The older I get the more I realize how the majority of things people worry about never come to pass and worrying just gums up the magic that one can summon to reach a goal.
There really is magic in deciding to take action. It manifests invisible forces that come to your aid. Call it a guardian angel, quantum physics or even God if you want to, but some kind of magical force comes to the aid of people who decide on a course of action and then take action in that direction.
I have fire walked before and it helped me to find within myself the feeling of being able to do what seems impossible to others. Once you've walked on burning coals it will change your perspective on what is and isn't possible. The words, "I can't", seem to fade from your vocabulary.
My friend posted this on Facebook today and I thought I would share it with you. These words ring true to me from the core of my being and I know you will find some value in these words too.
Unconflicted behavior is a term that Joseph Chilton-Pearce used to describe the state “wherein heart and mind-brain resonate in synchronicity, opening us to levels of possibility beyond the ordinary.”
Unconflicted behavior is “the zone”, the state of total inner-congruence and peace from which effortless manifestation always arises.
In SRI terms, unconflicted behavior is most associated with the Stage 8 experience — an emptiness and freedom where the inner and outer world are totally synchronized, a consciousness where the only thoughts that arise are ones that are congruent with what is already manifesting — so everything feels perfectly timed and orchestrated.
Decide what you want
Make your decision but stay unattached to the details, the “how” you are going to get where you want to go.
The key to unconflicted behavior is entering a state of “knowing” that you’re going to get a certain outcome. You don’t need to know how it’s going to happen. You just need to know with absolute certainty that it is going to happen.
Eliminate doubt
Unconflicted behavior is fearless. All of your focus must be on what you want, with no doubt that it won’t work out. With unconflicted behavior, there is no “backup plan” just in case you fail. There is no hesitation. There is no wondering if or “hoping” things will work out.
If you’ve ever done a firewalk, there is a moment when you decide to step out onto the twelve hundred degree coals. A feeling comes over you and you just “know” that it is your time. That congruence, that unconflicted behavior is what keeps you from being burnt.
When you focus on the feeling of certainty and knowing and leave no room for anything else, there’s no room for doubt. If any inkling of a doubt does creep in, acknowledge that you somehow dropped out of the “knowing” state and you need to find that certainty again before you continue on.
Stay in action
Unconflicted behavior feels effortless, but significant action must still be taken in most cases to get where you want to go. Once you’ve decided what you want and you’re in a state of knowing that it is going to happen, you need to keep moving in what feels like the right direction.
Sometimes doing nothing is exactly what’s needed (you’ll know this if you’re truly in the “knowing” state) but most of the time you just need to keep moving and keep doing what feels right at the time.
The great thing about unconflicted behavior is that when you’re in that zone, it doesn’t matter which direction you go — all you have to do is perpetuate that zone through your actions.
Remain flexible
Unconflicted behavior is about total flexibility. When you’re in the zone of certainty and knowing, you always find a way forward because you have left yourself no other option, yet at the same time you are flexible as conditions change.
Imagine a tightrope walker 40 stories above the city on a one-inch wide wire. The only way out is by putting one foot in front of the other and adapting to the wind conditions as they change. The tightrope walker knows only one thing for sure — he’s going to make it across.
The flexibility to deal with everything that presents itself between the two ends of the wire are critical to survival. The same goes for the survival of your desired outcome.
Be grateful
Unconflicted behavior is authentic. It comes from your essence.
When you are grateful there is no striving or pushing to make something happen. Gratitude helps you tap into the “knowing” state where effortless manifestation occurs because it requires that you drop your agenda and appreciate “what is”.
And “what is” is exactly what must be accepted and celebrated in order for effortless manifestation to occur.
Some of the most powerful and predictable tools that I’ve found to promote unconflicted behavior are NSA and SRI, which are both available through the Well Being Center.
Another more recently developed tool called the Triad of Change is proving to be incredibly helpful in creating more periods of unconflicted behavior in my life as well. ~ John Amaral credit
As you go about your day I hope you find encouragement from these words and take them to heart. If you do it will transform your life and attract what you want.
Ref:
http://wellbeingcenter.com/the-5-keys-to-creating-unconflicted-behavior-the-story-of-seat-a-6/
Sometimes the grass is greener on the other side, and if it turns brown, you can always move again.
Sometimes. I'm moving this week in fact. Back to Playa Del Carmen!
Sounds awesome man!
I'll do a full report on a post once I get settled in.
Sounds like a plan!
The grass is greener where you water it.
Nicely put. That made me smile :)
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