DO YOU HAVE A FAITHFUL PARTNER OR A SMART LIAR? MIND YOU ALL THAT GLITTERS IS NOT GOLD.

in #life6 years ago (edited)

Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.
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SIGNS TO KNOW........

when you look at her ...
If you do not feel blessed to have her. She is not yours to keep. She is another man's blessing. When you have accepted a man; and your mind is not at peace; you're dating someone that is not your blessing. Is not possible to stay a day without his/ her voice. Because you have been connected beyond your body desire.( Healthy relationship)

There is care, attention and good communication among you , because you believe in each other. You resolve your misunderstanding easily, because you hear and listen to each other. You talk about your visions and aspirations. Because you plan together to actualize your mission. Your conversation and interaction always look like you have known each other for more than you have being together.( Intimacy)

The right choice doesn't put you in a state of confusion, because his/ her intention is clear enough to see..(No pretence). MONEY or SEX is never the center of attraction. Because you understand each other beyond what the eyes can see. Between both of you there is no secret to keep. Ofcourse TRUST is your bedrock.

There is one purpose; one vision: and lastly dating with marriage on your minds.

ARE YOU GETTING READY FOR MARRIAGE??

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We have many microphone marriage speakers but less in action.

When you're due and ready, it will reflect in all you do, character wise, reasoning, comments, manner of approach, self control, social life, etc.

STEP TO WIN HIS/HER HEART

  • To win her heart, you must love her and target what you can do to bring out the best in her..
    Positive impact is better than romance.

To win his heart, you must respect him like no other, in return he will love you like no other.
He is the head as Christ is the head of her church.

  • Never you tell a woman "IF YOU'RE NOT READY TO GIVE IT TO ME(SEX) THEN YOU DON'T LOVE ME". My dear sex is not love
    That's a wrong mentality, because you can win her body but her heart will belong to another man. Go after the heart its the greatest..

See! Days are gone when men are after shape and boobs, today real men are after women of vision, purpose, ideas, solution carrier etc.
sex isn't expensive anymore but a virtuous woman is...

  • Don't dress nude in the name of fashion, your body belongs to one man and is your pride.

A man without self control is a man without integrity. When you're ready you will know that not every shoe is your size.

  • Women are like palm tree, everything in them is needed but the problem is that men want red oil but they don't wanna pass through the process. my brother if you really love her go and pay her Bride price and stop deceiving yourself.

When you're ready, you will delete fake life. You will stop living to please people..
Be real! Be original!

  • Don't judge her; when others are judging her, kindly see the best in her, Tell her how beautiful she is in public and correct her in private.

Don't be money sucker but be wealth Maker, through your good ideas and solutions..

  • Try your best to TRUST Her. Because In a relationship love is like a sim card while Trust is the network. Once there is no trust it will be moving like Lagos traffic

When you're aware of someone's past, never use it against the person. Remember you have your own past.

Smile, I think I will stop here today but ask yourself this few questions

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Are you ready mentally? Spiritually, socially? Financially? etc....

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nice post brother.

Smile, when you trust your partner love is assured

Smile :-) you have control only over what you feel, and think and do. Though a man love genuinely, there is no way you under God's earth, heaven or hell, that a man can determine, how much of what he expects to happen will actually happen. :-)
Of course, you could always be Jesus and walk around loving and trusting all and sundry and being free, but remember even He could be assured of no one.

Smile, even at the moment he could trust of no one he entrusted her mother to Peter lol

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