For me i do feel that the problem is how we are programmed by society. People associate success with having an office 9-5 job. In such a way that it becomes the 'it' thing. Grow up, get up a job, buy a home, raise a family. Which does rather become boring as you are saying. Wearing a tie and jacket then shows society that you are smart and able. Which really is not it. I wish someone had told me earlier.I would have had a better mindset