Where do bad people come from?

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Bad are not born, they become! Who is to blame for the fact that a person became bad, went on an incline, turned off the right path?

Of course, the easiest way is to blame responsibility for genes or improper parenting, for a person becoming an alcoholic, a drug addict, or arriving all his life in places of deprivation of liberty, and this is far from the right conclusions.

Every child is born pure and innocent. In fact - a clean sheet of paper, after which with every day lived on this sheet begins to be postponed everything seen, heard, from which the character and personality begin to form. But the main character traits begin to form at a more conscious age. Here, a large, if not to say, the most important role is played by the environment in which the adolescent is: a kindergarten, a school, friends. In particular, the very attitude of surrounding people to a certain person. After all, as is known, even in families of scientists and educated people, it is not uncommon for disadvantaged children to grow up. Just like in dysfunctional families and children's homes, people grow up good and educated. So where is education and genes. Yes, there are times when the atmosphere in the family lays its imprint on the nature of the child, but these are isolated cases and very rarely directly affect the fate of a person ...

In the life of examples, not a few, when the environment makes its own adjustments to the fate of a person, and in most cases not in the best direction.

Here, for example, are two cases from life that occurred before my eyes.
I had a friend, we were friends with her from primary classes. The girl was from a happy family, a quiet, calm and kind girl, but very full, which attracted the attention of the cruel classmates and peers. Constant ridicule, calls and frequent beatings led her to the most terrible thoughts. But fortunately, or unfortunately, she decided to act differently - to become like this cruel classmates, and rushed on an incline. Started smoking, drinking, companies, discos, drugs and the final stop - the zone. And many people do not understand at what moment the angel turned into a devil.

Here is the opposite case.
There was a boy in our yard, he lived in a dysfunctional family - his parents ate godlessly. Constant beatings instead of parental affection. He often slept on the porches, afraid to go back to the drunken parents home. And in his case, the best option was that the parents were deprived of parental rights. Then he was adopted by his schoolteacher. The boy had a good life, he finished school well, learned, started a family and lives a normal life. So, who is still responsible for our destinies?

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