For a bright life, here are things you need to quit!!

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Be grateful for what you already have while you pursue your goals. If you aren’t grateful for what you already have, what makes you think you would be happy with more. --- Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart

Every day we wake up to the possibility of being a better version of ourselves. We work hard to change our daily routine, which in turn should help us change our habits. We still end up not different from what we were yesterday, so we start over again with no result.

Here, I present to you things you need to quit today so that you can have a changed life and become the best version of yourself.

• Trying to please everyone: You need to stop! Yes, stop doing like you own everyone's problem and seeking validations by doing everything everyone asks of you. The truth is, you can never please everyone, the sooner you understand and come into the realization of this the better. No matter what you do or how much you try, people will only take advantage of you and dump you afterwards because you can never satisfy everyone. Watch it.

• Scared of change: Be open to change. The world is dynamic and so is the things in it. You cannot continue to live and work with olden tools when there are new machine and inventions to help you live a better improved life. Don't be scared of change, rather embrace change and make the best of it.

• Living in the past: It's time to let go, I mean it. Whatever has happened yesterday is gone, it's past already. You neeed to move on, forgive whoever wronged you. Create a new path, work towards a new future for yourself. Forget the disappointment, accept it as a part of living and use it, the past problems as a launching pad to your greatness. The obstacles is your stepping stone, you're beyond it now... Manifest and grow.

• Stop being depressed: Depression is a soul killer. Snap out of it, come into the glorious light. See every new day as a new beginning for better things which will help you become that great thing you've always wanted to be.

• Being afraid to be different: It's okay to be different. Don't try to join everyone, your uniqueness is special. You're exactly what the world need, a blessing. You're filled with love, compassion, empathy, intelligence and kindness, share it with us. Don't be afraid of rejection, we all need you to help us better understand the world.

• Beating yourself up over mistakes: Mistakes is part of life's lesson. Stop beating yourself over a mistake you've made, instead learn from it and project yourself into making the best. Didn't Thomas Edison fail many times before achieving his goal. If he had beat himself for every mistake or relent I'm sure he wouldn't be an important name today. Remember winners don't quit, quitters don't win.

• Sacrificing your happiness for others: It's a culture for you to sacrifice for others. Yes, it's for a good cause. But hey! There should be a limit, you have to balance it. It shouldn't be at your own loss. Your happiness matters alot, don't forget to nuture and protect it.

• Thinking you're not good enough: This is the worst thought you would ever have. To think you're not good enough or aren't deserving of the best things is all forms of wrong. You deserve all the best, because you are special, unique, adorable and awesome. Believe in you!

Be a light, Shine!!!