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RE: THE GOOD AND BAD THINGS ATTACHED WITH LIFE
Instead of criticism, why not try admiration and praise, all human has a sense of ego and important and we strive daily to keep up with it, try seeing the good part of people and watch them strive to meet up to that good view, give people credit for their good work and see them toil not to tarnish the good name.
Sometimes criticism goes a long way in making someone a better person. It all depends on the approach and delivery.
It would be unfair to give praises to someone who's clearly going the wrong direction. That will only make you a fake person.
You can always criticize/correct someone in a mild way. With a smile and words of encouragement.
All we need is love!!
there is a story of a complaining parents :
we have tried all measures possible to get tour boys to change those awful ways, they did wrong and deserve punishment, don't they?
sometimes we refuse to give them food,and beat them, or mostly we speak sternly about this way of living to them in private, that is the best of constructive criticism I could give, but all this medium did nothing, I mean virtually nothing.
Then we decided to try admiration, we praised only the good things they did, and you know how difficult it is to see something good, when you've already written that person off, but we tried our best, little by little, they now wanted to live up to the expectations of our praises, Now it works like magic, though everything isn't as perfect as we want, our boy now live the good lifestyle expecting our commendation, and we do not hold back we give it lavishly.