Joe Rogan is a great example on how to be funny without the need to hurt or be nasty, even rude. He displays the ability to do so better than most, but also in the line of Comics that don't use the liberties of the English language like a sword are, Tom Segura, Joey Diaz, Brendan Schaub (who can afford to be nasty since he has the combat ability to back it), and may he rest in peace, the late Patrice O'neal. There are several others I am sure that can relay a message that is critique in nature, without being rude or incendiary, now the receiver however, that's a different story, One may never be able to soothe someone who drinks from the well of fury. Conformity may be the lack of creativity and innovation but that has nothing to do with being kind, nor does it make a lack of manners acceptable. With that in mind, I send my love and respect.

Tis was just my two cents.