I never have been all that fat, I have a very high metabolism. But at one point, I recall vividly having a sense of flappy flesh on my chest that bounced when I bounced. It was quite a shock for me. I'm a boy, so I'm not supposed to have this happen, right?

I have very acute body awareness, and for me this experience gave me a window in on what every woman's somatic experience is about, at least in this area. It made me think a lot, man, how do these wimmins put up with this flappy flesh on their chests. It's very uncomfortable. But I know, you get used to these things.