"Don't Criticize, Don't Condemn, and Don't Complain" - Words Of Wisdom SHOW Episode 08

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How are you doing people???? How is your Saturday so far?! This is your Cypriot guy, Kyriakos Kyriakides, Founder of the Team LEGACY, your mentor and your coach! This is another episode of Words Of Wisdom SHOW! Today we are going to discuss a habit that if you apply it in your life then you will be able to make a lot of friends! I am reading the book “How to make more friends and Influence people” from Dale Carniege and this is one of the chapters of the book! The title is: "Don't Criticize, Don't Condemn, and Don't Complain"! And this is the title of our episode today too! Episode 08!

In today’s episode we are going to discuss and show the benefits of deleting those habits from your lifestyle, and then I am going to show a very simple and beautiful exercise that will help you delete those poisonous habits, once and for all!
You have to be aware and careful with those poisonous habits! Criticize, condemn, and complain are THE MOST poisonous and dangerous habits to have in your lifestyle! It is the easiest thing to criticize, condemn, and complain, and a lot of people doing it! I was doing it for a long time too! But, by deleting those habits, from your lifestyle, then be ready for a huge positive change in your life!

When you criticize, condemn, or complain about something that a person did, then you don’t help him understand his or her mistake! The only thing that you do, is to bring that person to a situation in order to think and find an excuse, to justify his actions! On the other hand, if you think from his point of view, and try to understand why he did what he did, then you will be able to make things better and make the other person understand his mistake. There is always a reason for the actions that people do! Acting like this, you will find his or her motives, and after with a more elegant way you can make him understand his mistake and then forgive him for what he did! By being an understanding and forgiving person, helps the other understand his mistake! And if the next time is going to do the same mistake, he will remember your reaction, and how you handled it, and he won’t make the same mistake again!

Also a great quote from the book that I read is this one: “Any fool can criticize, condemn, and complain – and most fools do! But, it takes character and self control to be understanding and forgiving!” Of course this quote was said and written by Dale Carnegie! And if you understand the meaning of this quote then you are one step closer in deleting those habits forever from your lifestyle!

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Now you may think “I know that those habits are not good, but it’s easier to say than do!” And I can understand your thinking, I know how it feels! I felt the same! But I read in a book an amazing exercise that helped me delete those habits for ever from my Lifestyle! This is a very simple and great exercise that you can apply to your life instantly and you will see a tremendous change to you as a person! I am going to share with you this exercise because I know how amazing it changed my life, and I want your life to change in a positive way too!

So, the EXERCISE is this! Find a small box in your home, or a piggy bank, or whatever that you can put money inside! Ahahahah is time to pay for your bad habits (Ahahha joking! Well, sort of! :P)! So, on that piggy bank, stick a paper on it, and on the paper write this 3 small sentences: “Don’t Criticize. Don’t Condemn. Don’t Complain.” Stick that paper on the piggy bank, and put the piggy bank somewhere that will be easily accessible! Now, every time that you find yourself doing one of those 3 bad habits, you need to put in the piggy bank 1 euro/1 dollar, whatever is your currency! Also, inform all of your friends that you are doing this exercise, in order for them, to remind you if you are with them and you do one of those 3 habits! By doing this I can guarantee you that you will save a lot of money! I’ve saved a lot of money myself, too! :P

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So by doing this exercise, your subconscious mind will learn that those 3 habits are “Bad” and that when you do them, it “Costs you”! At some point, if you follow this exercise correct you will see that magically those 3 habits will be deleted from your lifestyle! BUT, you have to know that it will take time! It won’t happen in 2-3-4-10 days! It will need time, but is worth it 100%!

You may think right now: “Ok, the money that I will collect, what shall I do with them?”. What I would suggest to you, is to give them for a good cause! You can give them to a non-profit organization, to Red-cross, you can give them to your church, or somewhere that you know it will make the change! So, with this exercise you delete once and for all those 3 poisonous habits from your life, and you also make a good act to your community and the whole world by donating those money!

To recap, delete those 3 habits: Criticize, condemn, complain! Be committed from this day forward that this habits will be gone forever from your lifestyle! And how you can do that? Follow the exercise that I just explained you! Of course, if you didn’t get on time and see the live from the beginning, I advise you to take 15 minutes from your time, and watch the video from the very beginning!

Watch the Video of EPISODE 08 and I quarantee you that it will give you tremendous clarity for your life! :D
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