Why building a stable relationship is becoming more and more difficult?

I want to be like my grandmother and my grandfather as my parents ... I want them to be with one person for a lifetime ... Why is it all the more difficult today to do that? Why are the links between two young people often ending in a few months, even weeks?

Of course, there are couples who meet and seem born to each other. They create a family and enjoy their happiness.

But an increasingly common problem is finding a suitable mate, building long-term and, more importantly, stable relationships.

Here are some of the reasons that may have a major impact today:

1. We are not ready yet

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From the constant waiting of the right moment and the moment we will "get ready", there is a great chance to miss out on good opportunities. Instead, we can engage in the relationship without enormous expectations, demands, and limitations. We just love unconditionally and we are ready to make the necessary compromises. Then unexpectedly man may be the one we've been looking for.

2. We have no patience to build the relationship

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It takes a long time to create a stable relationship - months can last, while two people love each other and fit their characters. Today we are in a hurry - we meet someone, we like it and in the first week, we want to have the best relationship. Yes, but it takes time and patience.

3. Excessive requirements

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We start relationships and end them as soon as we find a "better" option. We often do not give our best to our partner, but at the same time, we want him to be perfect. Is it not better to accept the person as it is without requiring something permanent? If we do not like it, why did we start a relationship with him and want to change it?

4. We have focused too much on the career

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It is difficult to spend all our time and attention in pursuing careers and/or material benefits and, at the same time, asking for a stable relationship. If we work 24 hours a day, where does the person who is with us stay? Is he asking for attention?

This is not about people who are devoted to their profession within the workday, but rather about those who are swallowed up by their sick ambitions to succeed. And nowadays these people are not a bit ...

5. True communication, technology, and social networks

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Where did face-to-face communication go? We can chat with someone on dating or Facebook chatting around the clock, but we really forgot to communicate live.

It's foolish to be together with your loved one and chat with a few more people or browse your social networking profiles for a long time. At one point it comes out that we communicate with many people online, but we are becoming more and more difficult to communicate real-to-face.

6. Sexually Released

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Today, people first have sex and then think about whether they want to be together. Undoubtedly, sex is of great importance to two people, but other components are needed to build a strong relationship.

More and more young people prefer "open relationship" or "sex without tying", which does not help them in creating a more serious relationship.

7. Fear of tying

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While many people say they are not ready, others are directly afraid of new relationships, from further disappointments, emotional wounds, and broken hearts. Because of this, it is difficult for people to come to themselves and do not want to get into a new relationship.

They often build walls around themselves that are too thick and tall to allow them to see what is happening beyond them. How long, however, can a person be alone in the past?

8. Trust and respect!

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A stable relationship requires trust, 100% confidence! If we constantly think that your boyfriend cheats us, we keep track of his wires and chats on social networks, then it makes no sense. If we are not sure about the person next to us and we do not respect him, we better not go on. When we learn to trust, then we can build real and longer-lasting relationships.

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Much love - Krisii

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