The art of being alone! And happy!

in #life6 years ago

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John Allen Paulus says, "Uncertainty is the only security that exists, and knowing how to live with insecurity is the only security." For anyone who has a connection, this concept may be a little worrying. However, a different quote from an unknown author can bring some relief: "It is not a status, it is a word that describes a person who is strong enough to live and enjoy life without being dependent on others." These are the benefits of a lifetime of being without a partner and not being a drama.

There's no reason not to be alone.

Since you have no partner, there is no reason not to do everything you want. You can go out, have fun, do not want to meet someone's expectations if you are not at the moment.

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You have more time to focus on the present.

You have more free time than most people in a relationship because you do not have to spend time or energy even thinking about your partner. The key is to spend this time and energy to find out what you need to do to be happy and successful.

You will find out what is missing in your life.

Besides partner, of course! When you focus on thinking about what would make you happier, it would be impossible not to imagine some things that would make your life more enjoyable. And then you will try to have them.

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The change

You should often think of all the options that would be available after the change.

Thinking of love when you are not in love is useful.

And this should not be a sad experience! If you know how you will love and how you want to be loved then it will be much easier for you to relate. And the chances of everything going smoothly are increasing significantly.

Being alone is not really a bad choice.

When you think about how many people on the earth are hungry and have no home, it really seems absurd to be depressed or angry simply because you are alone.

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You have more time for friends and family.

When you are not in touch, you will have more time and energy for your friends and family. It is quite natural. The pleasure of such relationships is by no means undervalued. Even on the contrary!

You will need fewer excuses.

Do not forget all those moments: "There are so many things to be done, but I just do not have time because of my partner ...!" Well, unless you find another excuse, then you will start doing more than these things and moving forward in life.

See also: How I fell in love with Che Guevara

You have the chance to change quickly.

If you decide to spend all your extra time and energy on a particular problem, then you can very quickly decide it. And from there, progress will come extremely fast.

You will become more independent.

This will serve you well for the rest of your life, even in future relationships!



Much love - Krisii

source:http://newme.bg/
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okay ............. nice post

Most importantly when we’re not in a relationship(with partner) we would then be in relationship with ourselves . I love myself a lot ;)

Interesting article :)

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