How the crises in our lives heal and teach to love

Life is challenged. At every step we have difficulties. We learn to overcome them, we succeed and hope - the next barrier is ahead of us.

Sometimes these crises have a serious effect on us and shake us fundamentally. Somehow we gather our strength and continue to be mothers, fathers, sons, daughters, spouses, partners, friends, colleagues, and so on, but something in us is no longer the same.

We realize that something irreversible has changed that we can not continue as we have done before. Sometimes we start and suffer because we do not understand what is happening inside of us.

It often happens to ignore this inner discomfort, we try to dampen it with our employment, try to drown it with workaholism, try to blur it with food, alcohol, shopping, fitness, travel, we try to shuffle it behind our phones And social networks.

Today there are so many ways we can actually break away from our real feelings, which inevitably leads us to the excommunication of that part of us that suffers.

Perhaps this sounds logical - no one wants to suffer, so why not cut off this pain and just do not forget about it? We want to continue living our lives, as we have lived so far, but these feelings just do not want to get away. Can not we just bury them somewhere and never feel them again?

Is not it logical to want our lives back and eliminate what we are doing? But let me answer the question with a question:

Do you think these troubles that happen to you, and those feelings that provoke you, are something like an indicator, something that draws your attention in a certain direction in order to manage to heal some of the yourselves?

Do you think that this pain is actually a call to yourself to pay attention to yourself and how do you live your life?

Do you think that this pain caused by external factors is just the tip of the iceberg you see, but beneath it floats much deeper trauma that wants to be cured? So that you yourself be free, full, full of desire and life.

I understand that this concept may sound a little odd, even crazy. But we are not the victims of external circumstances, and the sooner we realize this, the sooner we will live in peace, harmony, and love.

We all carry deep injuries in ourselves - traumas from past generations, our parents, war traumas, genocide, oppression. We believe that these things are part of the past, but in fact, we carry them in us, they are sealed in us.

Do you wonder why so many people die of cancer today? Cancer is the new plague, there is no one who does not know at least one person affected in any way. I personally lost my mother and sister at a very early age.

For me, this is a call for all of our humanity. We must reconsider our lives, our values, beliefs, behaviors, relationships to each other and our planet. And we have to become better versions of ourselves.

But it means entering our inner world, meeting our demons, confronting our fears and transforming them. We do not know what we find there - what goblins, what terrible monsters. We do not know how long it will take us, and whether we're going to get out again.

But that's what I want to assure you. The light is always there and the tunnel is over. And these terrible monsters are the feelings we want to avoid, and they just want to be loved and accepted. They are like little children who want attention, and when they do not receive it they scream more and more until they are consoled.

Accepting these parts of us and loving them actually helps to heal deeper traumas - those that we carry from previous generations. Since they did not have a chance, this opportunity was given to us. Crises in our lives are an opportunity for us to heal ourselves and our ancestors, heal humanity, and even "defeat" cancer.

What we have to do is stop our own cycle of self-destruction - be it workaholism, alcoholism, addiction to social media. Let's look inside to find out what we are hiding and protecting, and when we realize our greatest fears - to understand them, to love them, to look at them as small children who scream for love, Because they do not know what else to do.

In this way, we find this deep love with and for which we are created. Once we love ourselves, we are able to love others the same way. We immerse ourselves in the unceasing spring of unconditional love. We are healed and able to heal.

Much love - Krisii