Totally agree, sometimes the best way to live is for yourself, doesnt mean selfishness should be your goal but it simply means putting yourself first should be a major priority. I love you is kinda become a dilluted line these days, people just say it because its verbally fashionable rather than because there is a need to express true feelings by it. One must first learn to love oneself before that person is capable of understanding how to share that love. You cant give what you dont know so if you dont know how to be happy you cant make someone else happy, you mite try but the effects wont be as lasting as intended. Great post.
I totally agree with you, it becomes clearer everyday and I see it as a growth process learning to handle situations that are filled with intense emotions, some people are well aware of others vulnerability in such situations and just manipulate these people by turning them into prays, not that they are not aware of the situation that they find themselves but they try to do something good like saying sorry even when they are not at fault or going all out to get sad experiences out the window not really concerned about how much effects in could have on them. It would have been very easy to act like everyone else by having no emotions to how their actions affect the next person but some people are just not wired that way. Expressing love should come naturally it doesn’t stop anyone from experiencing self-love.