The longest I've been in one place for 10 years is 13 months. In general I think I move around too much, but I'm not going to give that up. Looking for someone for the reason of wanting to ease my own suffering/confusion seemed like I would just be putting a band-aid over a deeper issue that needs to be resolved first. And also it felt like it would be unfair to the person I'm with. I have a habit of overthinking :O