RE: How do you feel about...the penis!!!
Hey thanks, I guess I just walked straight into this one and just hit me hard about how it's still even a thing. Though ranting like I did was not really cool, I gotta practice a lil compassionate filter sometimes.
Don't even get me started on that sick religious shit though, please it's dark and questionably satanic. You don't even have to dig too far down the rabbit hole to see how the way that goes down is simply not right.. I'll see if I can find some leads for you.
Edit: Here you go.. warning do not watch if easily offended.
Anyway, yep this is a SUPER sensitive topic and I feel I've already crossed over the line. I'm obviously speaking from a personal bias and want to be more mindful about my choice of words. Above all I do not mean to seem judgey, or shaming anyone. These are just my opinions and anyone who did not have a consenting circumcision, majority; it wasn't your fault and I don't think I'm any better than anyone just because I was able to escape unscathed.
That bathing water and hygiene bs is ridiculous, as is the "too much skin" excuse, it's a fucking baby dick wtf are they thinking? Finally I guess some could see my point about rapes as a bit too far of a reach, especially since rapes come in all kinds of sick levels of abusive and manipulative forms. I get that, I actually didn't find the right words to express what I was attempting to explain fully before I started typed. I realize that now reading back. Though if you have been subconsciously raped of your foreskin as a infant, who knows what kind of behavioral schism are you seeding? Let's not get into the fact that most rapists are also rape victims.. how is this not some form of rape:
Warning: Explicit. Most do not believe without seeing direct evidence of this "ritual".
My point though, was theoretically, violent, forced intercourse would be fucking fucking painful to anyone who knows what it's like to have a entirely intact penis. Ask any man what a dry hand job is like or even with a bit of moisture cos I know some smart ass will point out even rape victims do sometimes have physical signs of arousal. At the very least my point does still hold true for sodomy, buggery, ass rape, however you want to put it.
Though to counter balance, if can get aroused by forcing yourself on someone, you probably don't care too much to notice your own pain or injury, pulling your dick skin back aggressively is not fun for most uncut men. It's there for a reason, to protect you and the point of foreplay and even early penetration is to go slow cos not only will you tear your partner up but that's not joy full bliss until she has time to open up and accommodate you.
A apology from a mom and some insights many have never considered:
Here I am going on again.. not going to mansplain all the details, you obviously know yourself too. Taking your time to go slow and build up is all important for love making of course. However, care less fucking? Add to that the influence of "hardcore" porno "banging" and add to that removing the sensitivity of male genitalia? Well it's a recipe for trouble and yes I know it sounds contradiction coming from me. I'm not proud of everything porn represents, however I have no regrets for my part in portraying adult consensual sex.
However during my decade tenure as a male performer, the insights and the sorrowful stories I've heard from all over the business, I still find it mind boggling and heart breaking how any man can do this. Which has lead me to think about what factors play into it actually physiologically happening? At the very least the foreskin helps remind a man to take his time and make sure his partner is fully aroused and ready, cos even then it can hurt.. a lot!
That's my all. Just one mans opinion and I don't feel as if I know it all or even that anyone would agree with what I say. We're all entitled to our opinions right?
While the videos are controversial they are accurate in showing why these practices are a bad idea.
But as for the rape, as someone's who done a good deal of sex/gender research i can say that rape is almost never about the actual act of sex like actual sex is. It's about the power, control and pain they are causing someone else. That's what they're getting off on. So I don't think that, for the ones who are still intact, are thinking of that type of pain for them. They are getting off on knowing the other person is "beaten" by them. Granted though it sounds like having the skin gone may make rape less painful for the rapist in that sense...
But I never knew that, for a man who is still intact, not being fully aroused could be painful if they try to have sex...
Appreciate your response and research @lydiaravenswood, I agree it's not easy to perceive where a rapist mentality comes from or even how it originates. Seeing it from your example, these males are not caring about anyone else's pain. Especially when getting off on power, dominance and beating/abusing the victim.
To me this still represents the imbalance of the internal masculine/feminine energies. Post traumatic stress from any early physical, mental or spiritual childhood injuries are of course not defenses. Perhaps just another example of societal cult-ure practices are often overlooked.
Of course it would be difficult for anyone without a intact penis to identify any of this as possible sources of equally harmful actions, intentions or manifestations.
Above all I get and respect your point.
Um, I'm going by the scientific route as we do seem to know why a person, not even a man, rapes. The chemicals in the brain are already messed up in how they think and consider others lives and how they affect them. So rape, for them, mentally from birth, isn't a "bad" thing in the way the rest of us see it.
There is some debate on the nurture aspect. Again, this is from the angle of all genders. Cause females do rape as well. They were abused at some point in their life, usually sexually, and perpetuate that violence because the brain was damaged in the process of the act.