Signs Of A Healthy Relationship!

in #life7 years ago

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Healthy relationships are hard to find these days! If you are currently in a relationship, you should see if yours has these qualities. Or if you are looking for a relationship, Make sure to find a relationship with these qualities.

You Always Do All The Giving

Relationships are about giving, And by giving I mean what you Give. Your partner should never have to give anything. Imbalance leads to an exciting and fulfilling relationship. So expect absolutely nothing from the relationship, Give all. If they try to give in return, Then find someone else. Because they don't value you very much. If they are trying to give you something, That means they expect you to "take" from them. And that's offensive.
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You Are Always Judged

You should feel good knowing that your partner is always judging you.
If you are listening to a weird song, and it sounds funny. Feel good knowing that your partner is making assumptions about who you are as a person because you listen to that song.

Judging is very important in relationships. It's important to find someone who is perfect. If their tastes don't align 100% with yours, They aren't worth hanging on to.

Are You Happy around them?

Being in a relationship means struggling as much as possible. You should NEVER be happy in a relationship, and if you are, That means something is wrong. When you feel happy around your partner, That means you need to start a fight. Try to find any petty thing that you can to get mad at them for.
Did they forget to take out the garbage? Did they forget to send you a goodnight text? Those are great reasons to cause a really bad argument. Make sure it drags on for days, So you don't have to look for another reason to be angry.
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Do you compromise?

Compromising kills relationships, Why would you compromise when you can give your partner 100% of what they want? Always refuse to compromise, Because your desires are less important than your partners. This is why they always deserve to get exactly what they want!

Are You Allowed To Have Friends?

If you want to be in a healthy relationship, It's important that you stop talking to other people completely. Your partner is supposed to be the only one in your life. When you talk to other people, you are betraying your significant other.
You shouldn't speak to any family members or friends ever again! In fact, Don't even look at other people in public, Because that can be considered cheating! Relationships are about ownership, And now that you are dating, Your partner owns you. If your partner allows you to have friends in addition to dating them, That's a BIG red flag!

Joking! Do the opposite!


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Nice article :) And guess a healthy relationship is also very personal. What might work for us might be a total disaster for other couples.

But it is a challenge to make a relationship work for a life time. The number of break-ups and divorces prooves that.

So true hehe :) It's sad that those numbers are so high! And I see why it can be so difficult. Long term relationships definitely have a new set of challenges.

These relationship kind of things are good for the western countries, but in India arrange marriage is the best solution for all these problems, end of the story...

I would say: whatever works is ok :)

Yup nowadays I even see dating sites in the Netherlands specialised in adultry. Guess the world is getting bizar somehow.

All want healthy relationship but its hard to get as its mostly depend on trust on eachothers so till all going well thete is not any issues but once misunderstanding happen all will damage. If one person from both do compromising then still more chances to solve issue. I am still single and never in relationship with anyone i also want to marry but its hard to find partner who is not with relationship with anyone too.

I love Your posts! They always make me laugh! ❤️ Haha

I'm so glad hehe :)

If you think my upcoming marriage is based on these signs then yes, I have a healthy relationship lol... you're invited to read al about it on my blog. I dare you. I double dare you 😎

heya Cem fancy meeting you here....tommorow is the big day, Mazel Tov :)

I had a gf while back and she was an ABSOLUTE control freak. She wanted me to deleted all my female facebook friends LOL. She argued, that all her boyfriends in the past left her and now she wants to have a control... Just stupid in my eyes. If I wanted to, I could get another girl without facebook. Not that I wanted to, I loved her. But just to emphasis my point.

Wow! I hate it when people get like that. Relationships are about trust. And if you don't have trust, It's not going to work haha!

Exactly! It's so hard to get in touch with a pessimistic person. If both are positive and believe that it can work then it probably will. If one distrust the other one from the start, then the relationship doesn't even need to begin in my eyes.

So true!
I agree completely with that. As soon as I see that the person doesn't trust me, I don't waste my time.

Yeah. It sounds quite rough to say that but I guess we both learned that from our past :)

Before finishing the blog i was like what? Then i saw the ending haha, great post btw

I've been in relationships where some of this seems expected! That was when i was young, impressionable, and stupid. Now i'm just.. nevermind! :)

LOL XD What? Now I'm curious lol

haha ......now i'm just one of the 3!

Haha, I re-read the first couple of sentences a few times. Thinking I mis-read, or there was a mistake that changed the meaning. Like when you type should instead of shouldn't or something. Definitely reeled me in with that first paragraph.

Hahah Good! Lol! I was hoping to throw everyone off relatively quickly.

relationship whats that ......its been 200 years since ive even been on a date....i guess it would be funny if i was only joking........ interesting read though ...thanks ...:)

Awww XD If you want to go on dates you should find someone! LOl.

yes ive heard thats a start.......so i keep getting told ......:)) cheers....

The first signs that there might be something unhealthy going on in your relationship
is your use of the word “control.” Controlling behaviors are not healthy and can become abusive.
Also its starting to get danger, when your partner says "You are this", "You do this". There is
an easy behavior to avoid. Talk about YOU !
Example:Dont say "YOU did hurt me", the right thing to say would be "I am hurt" !!

So true :)
This post was joking, But I love how you brought some seriousness to it! I agree that controlling behaviors are defiantly abusive. I see it all the time, And those relationships never turn out good.

Ok some people tell me that I am to serious about some things..LOL :)

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