Provide VALUE To Others, Expect Nothing In Return!

in #life6 years ago

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So many entitled people these days. It makes me so sad. It ranges from the attitude of people with jobs, Or how people go about giving.
When we give, we often expect something in return.

Yes, We EXPECT Something In Return...

Whether it's a "Thank you" or money, Or some kind of reciprocation in the future.
The thing is, If it's truly a "gift" then nothing should be expected in return.
But the thing is most of the time, Consciously or subconsciously we are expecting something...
This leads to inflated expectations and disappointment when we ultimately don't get what we want.

Learn To Give Freely

When you give freely, people will appreciate it more. Also, you'll be able to let go of that odd and dragging "responsibility" that the person you gave to, Somehow owes you something. It's a better feeling too Because you can feel good about what you did. And not worry about what may or may not be done for you.
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Don't Give What You Can't Give

Sometimes we give too much, And we are left with too little. This is when those feelings come into play even more.
We need to be careful about how much we give, Giving too much leaves us with too little. While giving too little will give us less joy that comes from giving.
So make sure you are taken care of first, Then give what you can.

It's Not Always Financial

I hate it when people say "They don't have the Money to give."
Well, certainly you can give time? Or Things, Or whatever it is you are good at.
There are many charities and events which could use an extra hand. Or heck, Just pick up garbage on the ground when you see it. It doesn't even need to be "organized." When you go to the store and see an extra cart in the wrong place, Grab it and put yours and someone else carts back, The employee at the store will have one less thing to worry about because of your generosity.
Small things add up.

Everyone has something to give!
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I wish more people could see things this way. In life, the more we give the more life’s will give us back. This attitude is able to create a chain of events in which more and more people are doing good things just because they want to do them, as simple as that.

Do you know the movie “Pay it forward”? Because that movie is about this subject. Very good movie too.

I have watched it , this movie motivates a lot.

I agree! Giving without expecting anything in return is the way it was meant to be

Giving is one area I'm working on.

@kaylinart Very Simple and well Said. Yes there are so many ways to give. I think I need to give more UP Votes......

@kaylinart - Absolutely correct. We all expect something in return when we do something for someone. If not in hard financial terms, we at least expect gratitude and that actually sets up a bias in relationships. The best way is to keep doing things and expect nothing. The good deeds will someday automatically pay off.
Well said my friend. Upvoted.

Regards,

@vm2904

And most importantly,do not let your smile in your face disappear... @kaylinart

its the rule of life .If we stucked in something than its the end of life. always moveon

I wish more individuals could see things along these lines. Throughout everyday life, the more we give the more life's will give us back. This state of mind can make a chain of occasions in which an ever increasing number of individuals are doing great things since they need to do them, as basic as that.

people should think its our duty to give back if we are taking somthing

Sounds like you understand The Secret!

Always expect nothing in return if you want to do good deeds.

The world will be a lot better place if more people can think like you :)

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