Choose To Be Happy!
So many people believe that if they get x, y, or z they'll be happy. But the reality is, That's just not how happiness works.
You Never Know When It's your Last Day
We all know life is short. But our brain doesn't seem to fully get that. We seem to think that despite us seeing people pass away around us. That it won't ever be our turn.
Would you want others to look back and see you being a person who was always unhappy? Would you want to look back at your life, And realized that those moments, When you were too consumed with everything wrong with your life, Could have had a positive and happy day?
We all have bad days, But every day doesn't need to be a bad day. Even for those of us who are less lucky than others. There are always things to be grateful and happy for. Despite what seems to be going on overall.
It Makes Life Easier
When we are positive and happy a lot of the time, it often makes it easier for us to get those better opportunities.
People will also want to be around you more.
The other day, I was at work, And I just felt grumpy.
I just didn't have the energy I'm normally used to, And for some reason, I was just in a bad mood.
My coworkers noticed, And one of them pointed out, That I was being "annoying" because I wouldn't "stop complaining".
I'm lucky enough to have coworkers who are incredibly straightforward. But In many cases, if you are a negative person people will avoid you. I'm grateful my coworker said something Because once I was aware of it, I started focusing on what I could do to put myself in a better mood. I thought about how thankful I am for my cool part-time job And my silly coworkers who have the best jokes.
All the sudden, I went from having a bad day to a decent day. Which made the shift go by faster, So I could get home and put my grumpy self to sleep!
Everyone is negative sometimes, But once you figure out why, And what you can do about it. Things start to change really fast. You may realize that many of the reasons you feel grumpy Are actually really silly.
You Won't Be Happy With More
If you don't choose to be happy despite your circumstances, you'll never be happy at all.
It doesn't matter if you have 10 million dollars and a new house, You'll never have that feeling of happiness that you expect to have.
Your happiness level comes from you, Go for a run, Drink some water! Take care of yourself, And choose to be happy!
You just spoke words out of my heart. Sometimes even when I’m down I try not to think negative because two negatives combined don’t go so well. We should think positive in every situation because what we can’t control , we shouldn’t stress over
You will see that you are happier when we accept the fact that happiness is not a result but an election. Of course you do not need to wait any longer for this, are you ready to take action? @kaylinart
Exactly! I love that you say result! It's so true.
Thank you! :) I would recommend reading this post. @kaylinart
https://steemit.com/writing/@beyfendi/love-stole-the-door-ask-kapiyi-calmis
This is why I keep positive, look forwards and don't stress as it makes me happy to know I am working hard for what I want and others see it as well. :)
Exactly! You can only do so much. So sweating that you can't do ten times more won't help you get anywhere.
Happiness is found when you stop comparing yourself with others @kaylinart
Exactly! Thats another one.
True happiness begins within yourself. Always be true to yourself and happiness will come easily.
Most of our hapiness comes from anticipating it, rather than being it! So long as you've got something to look forward to, like these posts; you'll be there.
I choose joy most days and it sounds cheesy but I truly believe this works! ❤️ You have the best inspirational posts Kaylin!
Being positive and happy definitly makes life easier and you will also live much longer and happier life !! This would have been a great post to share in my Power Of Positivity P.O.P Contest or in my #popcontest Tag For all my positive Steemians to read ! Now in its 20th. week we are spreading Positivity all around steemit , and so are you @kaylinart ! its fabulous ,I truely loved your positive post !! Upped and resteemed !! been following you for quite awhile but seem to be missing your posts , we must post at opposite time zones , plus I sleep during the day blog all night as night shift worker ! Im definitly going to try and follow more of your stuff from now on !! STEEM ON , KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK !!👌👍✌💕
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Sometimes it is tough to remember it is a choice.
Everybody could be Happy if they can realize they can exit the Hamster Wheel if they choose to do so........................ @kaylinart another terrific Post !
The stars must be aligned because I too was feeling content this evening. Thinking about life and how lucky I truly am. I have everything I need to be happy. Amongst all the negatives in the world there that is so easy to bring us down, we can always make the choice to be happy 😊