When nothing goes well ... 8 things to remember!

kalinka (63)in #life • 7 years ago

If you go through hell, keep going without stopping. - Winston Churchill

When nothing goes wrong ... Here are 8 recommendations that you need to know and which will motivate you when you need it most:

1. Pain is part of growth

Sometimes life closes because it's time to move. And that's good because often we do not go forward if circumstances do not force us. When hard times come, remind yourself that no pain comes without a purpose.

Move from what causes you pain, but never forget the lesson she teaches you. Fighting does not mean that you are experiencing a failure. Every great success requires a decent fight. Good time wants time. Stay patient and confident. Everything will be sorted out, probably not immediately, but in the end, everything will get ...

Remember that there are two types of pain - pain that hurts and pain that changes you. Both pains help you grow up.

2. Everything in life is temporary

Whenever it rains, you know it will stop. Every time you cause pain, the wound heals. There is always light coming out of the darkness - it reminds you every morning, but nevertheless, we often think that night will always last. This will not happen. Nothing goes on forever. So if right now everything is nice, enjoy it.

It will not last forever. The fact that at some point life is not easy does not mean you can not laugh. If there is something that bothers you, it does not mean you can not smile. Every moment gives you a new beginning and a new end. Every second you get a second chance. Just use it.

3. The worries and complaints do nothing to change

Those who complain most of all achieve the least of all. It's always better to try to do something bigger and suffer a failure than trying to succeed without doing anything. Nothing is over, even if you have lost; But it's all over if you really believe that. So keep trying.

Do not let the shadows of the past obscure your future. Complaints from the experience of today will not make tomorrow's day brighter. Instead, make sure you make a change using what you learned. And nevertheless, what will ultimately happen, remember that true happiness begins to come closer only when you stop complaining about your problems and start grateful for all those problems you do not have.

4. Your marks are symbols of your strength

Never be ashamed of the scars your life has left. The scar means that pain is gone and that the wound has healed. This means that you have overcome the pain, learned your lessons, become stronger, and have gone further. The mark is like a tattoo of triumph. Do not let the scars make you hostage. Do not let them make you live in fear.

Start watching them as a sign of strength. Jalal ad-Din Muhammad Rumi once said: "Through the wounds, the light penetrates you." Nothing can be closer to the truth. Out of suffering, the strongest souls appeared; The most influential people in this great world carry their wounds. Look at your markings as a slogan: "YES! I HAVE THIS, I have survived, and I have scars to prove it, and now I have the chance to become even stronger."

5. Every small battle is a step forward

In life, patience does not mean waiting; It is the ability to preserve your good mood by working hard for your dreams. So if you are going to try, go to the end. Otherwise, there is no point in starting. This may mean losing your stability and comfort for a while and maybe even your own reason. You may have to eat what you are accustomed to for many weeks, or not as often as you are accustomed.

This may mean that your comfort zone will change. This may mean you will hear a mockery. This can mean loneliness. Loneliness, however, is a gift that makes many things possible. You will get the space you need. Everything else is a test of your determination, of how much you really want to achieve your goal. And if you ask for it, you will do it despite the misfortunes and disagreements. And with each step, you will feel better than you can imagine at the moment. You will understand that the fight is not a barrier on the road, that's the way. And it is worthwhile to go all the way.

6. The negative reaction of other people is not your problem

Keep yourself confident when the bad around you. Smile when others try to defeat you. This is an easy way to maintain your own enthusiasm. When other people talk badly about you, keep on being yourself. Never let any conversations change you. You can not take everything to heart, even if it seems to you that it affects you personally. Do not think people are doing something for you. They do it for themselves.

First of all, never change to impress someone who says you are not good enough. Change if it makes you better and leads you to a brighter future. People will talk no matter what you do and how well you do it. Worry about yourself, not the opinion of others. If you believe in something, do not be afraid to fight for it. The power comes from overcoming what others find impossible. Your life is given once. So do what makes you happy and live with the people that make you smile.

7. What should happen will happen

You are strong when you refuse to scream and complain and start to smile and appreciate your life. There are blessings hidden in every struggle you face, but you must be ready to open your heart and mind to see them. You can not make things happen. You can only try. At some point, you will have to leave the situation and allow what is meant to happen to happen.

Love life, trust your intuition, risk, loss and find happiness again, learn through experience. Life is a great journey. Stop worrying, asking questions and doubting at any moment. Laugh, if something goes wrong, live in the moment and enjoy every moment of your life, whatever it is. You may not end up just where you wanted to go, but you will end up just where you should be.

8. Just keep moving

Do not be afraid to go back - to try again to live again to love again to dream again. Do not let the misfortune break you. The best lessons in life often learn in the worst times and the worst mistakes. There will be times when it will seem that everything that has been possible to go wrong has gone wrong.

And it may seem like you've been stuck in this track forever, but that's not the case. And when you are willing to give up everything, remember that sometimes things have to go wrong to get it right. Sometimes you have to go through the worst to get to the good. The universe always does what is right.

Yes, life is tough, but you are tough. Find the strength to smile every day. Find the courage to feel different but still beautiful. Find in your heart what makes others smile too. Do not attach great importance to things that you can not change. Live simply. Love generously. Talk honestly. Work hard. And even if that's not enough, keep going. Do not stop the movement.