We are not perfet nobody is, it doesn't wether if you have different views and beliefs with you partner because it natural both of you are unique, you and your partner grown from places maybe you're both from the same but your upbringing are not the same. Being married doesn't mean that you to live on each other's differences but rather to create a new relationship out of it. Succes in relationship is not by living on each other's expectation but by recreating.