Growing by Healing

First of all, THANK YOU EVERYONE FOR YOUR SUPPORT UP TILL NOW!
When i woke up this morning and saw about my last post, i really woke up in a happy mood!

But this also reminds me about something else as well.

I mostly talk about growing in a very masculine and rocket like way.
But there is another way of growth, the growth through Love, through the way that spreads to others and that you can help others heal from their past pains.
This way spreads like a wave eventually through many, but first you need to learn and heal yourself.

Love as the feminine way of growth.

This is important before you can help and heal others, I am still healing myself and I also get help from someone special to me in this cycle of healing, we are healing eachother when we have the time.

This does not go without issues and moments of silence and moments of feedback and reflection.
Yet, the more I heal, the more I can Heal! The more I am able to Love myself and the more I am able to Love!

Link: http://aminoapps.com/page/undertale/3491631/pacifist-route

Why Love as a form of healing?

Growing is something that can happen many ways, that you go lower or that you go to the side instead of going up, does not mean you have stopped growing. You are just growing differently!

There is no really going down, there is only going up. But up has many different forms and there is not one way up.

If the masculine way of growth is like a particle, then the feminine is that like a wave!

Love creates a wave inside of yourself and to others and removing their pains and letting them heal.
Because of the betrayal or lack of love from others, our heart gets scarred, hurt, we build armors around our heart, because of it.

Love itself though is all compassing, unconditional, truly caring, it helps the scars to disappear, it helps to melt the armor and it even can help set your heart on fire to the point that other hearts start to catch on that fire as well!

Some people have deep scars from their past and they always reflect it to the world in their daily lives on what they have been through, but there are forms of Love that can heal that kind of pain.

These scars gave us the lessons and things to overcome, but if you are not conscious of these lessons, we turn dark and bitter, because nobody sees us as anybody or special.

Giving us the feeling that we are not worth it, some go full egoïstic to the point that they destroy lives and the other side is pure self sacrifice and giving up themselves.

This is where the Love of someone else comes in, that is carrying that wave and using those waves to heal you as well, showing you that you are worth it! That you are more then, what others up till now have said and done!

Yes, when you are a stranger to someone, saying this has no to little influence. But if you have grown enough yourself, you know precisely what to say that can hit others, without knowing them. That is the kind of unconditional Love that you can give to the world and that you can SAVE others as well!

They had grown in a darker way for a long time and now they are starting to be able to grow in the light!

Growing in both Loving the other and Yourself!

Link: https://nl.pinterest.com/pin/206180489169168492/ (sorry dont have a pinterest account)

How to be able to reach this yourself ?

Starting off with balancing Self Love and Love for others, how do we do this?

• Well trying to understand what others are sometimes saying or trying to do without the negativity, not till the point that you get naïve, but to the point that you are trying to fight the paranoia and thinking that they are doing the right thing as well.

Yeah, forcing yourself to trust, it is the first part of opening up yourself as well!

• Also having a long term goal in mind, something you really want to achieve

• Go for this goal no matter what, do not be afraid to lose people, if people leave, remember the good times, cry if you may, but remember the good times and let it empower you.

Turn these people into an idea to even letting you push harder then ever before!

• Work towards that goal and keep those people in your heart in a good way and also accepting that they are there to also in their own way help you progress. (even if they are enemies, they are there to test you).

• Once you are able to beat this form of negativity, try to understand the underlying reason in all that they are doing, instead of judging.

• After that listening to someone and understanding that person's point of view, instead of judging you try to listen to the idea of what that person tries to bring.

Everyone has their own way of communication and knowing intent together with in what they are actually saying gives off a way better image.

Listening in itself shows your own confidence and it shows interest to the other person as well, it already shows that they are something more to you then just a random.

Link:https://www.youtube.com/ watch?v=BgYheas3do8 (needed to split it or else you end up with a double)

Now you are ready for waving (always pun intended)

So becoming a wave that makes you able to heal others around you, you noticed by practicing enough of what i mentioned above here. That you started to create a chain reaction, like a ripple or a wave that others share as well.

You can increase the effect actually by a couple of different mental exercises wich will increase your influence!

To first start off (going full spiritual now):

Prana exercise

Everyone has their own form of life energy or prana, you can influence it by visualisation and it is also all around them.
You can learn how to mass heal them as well or bringing up ideas just by being there. In terms of Franz Bardon and many other systems being able to mass heal is seen as being able to do True Will and you are a walking idea on your own, but aside from that.
Lets start from the beginning ( you can't start with mass healing directly ofcourse)

• Step 1: Everyone has prana that they have around them, but there is also negativity (almost always) try to visualize that energy and take it.

• Step 2: You can filter it and give it back or you can keep the prana, it energises and helps you as well, but because of certain idea's that you are following you do not want to, that is ok.

• Step 3: Try to not go to deep or to far, because you are litterly touching people on a very personal level and they can start to both fall in love with you or really hate you! So watch out!

The next one is when you also have gathered enough Will for yourself or are really energised and exited:

I call this the Pacifist walk

• Visualize that instead of having only a Flame of life inside of you that it also beats on a higher level.

• Visualize now that you are giving off waves for every step that you make.

• Stay conscious while doing this in terms of walking etc, do not focus to hard. Let it be a part of you and also in your daily life, you also start to notice that you are attracting more people!

For the ones not believing in this kind of work, it is not that it happens litterly, it is more that it gives a certain change to your natural charisma, wich looks like that it gives that effect, so there is no need to be sceptical, there is a need for understanding!

Link: https://nl.pinterest.com/pin/156289049546762753/

Be the change!

Once you also start doing this in terms of your own growth and also helping others like this remember this saying!

When you feel pain, it means that you are healing! Do not use the pain as an excuse to stop you from evolving, but use it as part of your own personal evolution! Do not put an armor on, but learn how to burn so hard that they burn their own fingers trying to scar your heart! Instead of putting yourself safe, even go further into uncertainty! Instead of giving up, STAY DETERMINED!

Living by example is such an important thing as well to help others heal!

Also congratulations, you are now able to heal others in a physical, mental and spiritual way!

Link: https://www.weasyl.com/~shrineheart/submissions/1137825/undertale-lost-souls

And yes a lot of my inspiration for this one comes from pacifist run of undertale and my apprentice ^^!
So i also did an undertale tag down there, because of the inspiration that i got from it! If that is a bad thing plz tell me, i will change it.