what a great article! The videos were a nice touch too - I have always believed that or lives are dictated by our attitude - I grew up learning that yo cant control the circumstances that happen to yo - but yo can control how yo deal with them - and having a positive mental attitude can overcome a lot of problems.Getting bogged down with negative emotions clods your mind and your judgement , compounding problems even further - a positive attitude can carry yo a long ways and keep your mind open to new ideas and options