I think we're helplessly fathers as we're helplessly born, as we're helplessly sons and helplessly daughters...we need to stop evaluating role performance as if we're in a contest. I think Ivanka thinks Donald is a tremendous father, and in the end, isn't that what matters? I wouldn't want to be Father of the Year and not be loved by my child. Everyone thinks if you just put in the effort, the results will be there. How naive.