"Whatever You Do, You're a Failure!"
"Palpak ka! Palpak! Isuwat na sa imong agtang." (You're a failure! Failure! Pin that on your forehead.")
These were the lines that left me dumbfounded for a minute. Tears started to form as they kept on repeating on my head.
Am I really a failure? That I don't know. All I know is that I'm just a human. I'm not perfect. I don't know what lies ahead. I cannot predict what's in the future.
Yes! I've made a lot of mistakes. I've started a venture which for everybody's eye was a failure. I've even failed in some of my decisions. Are these more than enough for everybody to see me as a failure? Do these mistakes give people a trespass to mentally torture someone that she is of no good and cannot be a success whatever she does? This I am confused with.
Well, life is life itself. We cannot please everybody. Whatever we do, whether good or bad, small or great, necessary or not, success or failure, people have always something positive and negative to say. So stop pleasing everybody, stop living the expected. Just do whatever you see is great in your eye which won't hurt others. That's what is important.
Whatever the environment will bring to you, just shake it off when it causes you no good and inhale the vibes when it brings you colors.
Dance like nobody's watching. Give your best shot in everything that you will do. And remember that no matter how many times you failed in your endeavor, you are NOT a failure but always a SUCCESS. So never ever stop making your dreams come true.
YOU ARE A SUCCESS! YOU ARE A SUCCESS!
I've been to this place more than I can count, this is the place where we all go when we try too hard for too long and yet things don't go as we thought they would have. I also know that only the good, honest, hard working, real people go to such places. There's one more thing about this place though, this places gives us experience and it teaches us life can be real hard but hey it's a part of living.
As far as other people who love to rub it all over somebody's face when they lose or kick them when they're down I just have to say. There are vultures in this world lurking in corners waiting for you to feel weak. However they're so weak they can't manage to make a meal for themselves but when you're weak they try to cash this opportunity in so many ways you can't imagine. These "vultures" for humans are the real weak people not you. You're stronger than you think because you know the taste of tough life.
Right @kissofearth. thank you
A really great post with some amazing thoughts - keep on posting @jenesa
> We are all humans, we make mistakes and meet people in our lives giving bad influences to you - steep up for those who don't believe in you!
Personally I'm struggling with lost ability after an accedent and I am trying to fight getting back to normal. But sadly enough, some of the people I ones where best friends with, could not look at me as a person anymore - they just "chickend" out and stopped contacting me. I was left back thinking; is it me as a person there's the problem?
But I have finally come to the conclusion;
thank you @qiobi
Wow. effort. Good job!
thank you @itinerantph
#optimism :) Nobody's a failure until you decided to give up and end everything. ^^
absolutely @tegoshei. thank you
you're welcome... ^^
Perfect results came from so much failures.
right @juvyjabian
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STOPnice!
thank you