This saying goes far beyond simply being kind to people, or going out of your way to be available or helpful to those in need. Yes, you would want others to assist you in a bind or be pleasant even in an unfavorable circumstance. But there are many ways to create equality in your world that may go completely unnoticed by others. It's really just about adjusting your views and attitudes.

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This saying is not only limited to treating others right but also having the right thoughts for another person.. Feel about others the way you would want others to feel about you. Speak to others the way you would want to be spoken to or spoken of. The truth is we all need love, we all want to be next to the people that love us and care for us, the same feeling you get when you know your love is the same feeling you should give to others.

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Apparently some people treat us unfairly, some people offend us and others go an extra mile of paying our good deeds with bad but at any one time never have the urge of paying bad too but just treat them better . sometimes this changes the way they think about you and it’s those little bits of good put together that overwhelm and challenge the people we associate with. Let us take an example of a workmate who badmouthed you infront of the boss and then you got to know all her intentions then as your heading home you find her stuck at the roadside may be her car has run out of fuel , you probably take a step of buying for her 5or 20 litres of fuel for her ride ... what do you think will happen the next days ? she will obviously change the way she thinks about you , you two people will get along plainly just that simple better move has changed the world for you and by the way always in life try to live a liife of freedom where you do not have grudges with people, try to fix all of them because in case you need help it is same people that will have to help you .

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How can we always improve our relationships with other people.

• Vocalize your appreciation for the person. People often like to be complimented for achievements and feel underappreciated when things go unnoticed. Notice the positive things that the person is doing and go out of your way to show your appreciation for them and actually when you notice that this person appreciates the small things you do for them, there is always a mutual relationship that develops magnetically with that person.

• Spend more time with the person you feel that things are not right. If you feel there is a grudge that is developing between you and someone else or you hardly see each other or talk to each other, it can be difficult to maintain a relationship. Take extra time out of your day and dedicate it to the person that you want to improve a relationship with. Try to work around the other person’s schedule so that you can spend the time together. You can go an extra mile by sharing a meal together or watching movies

• Excuse yourself and walk away if you’re getting angry or upset. If you notice that you often get mad over the same topic, you can prepare for your emotions and manage them better. Anger ruins a relationship and letting go of your anger is the best way to avoid confrontation and sustain a relationship .Think about topics that make you feel angry or uncomfortable and avoid them when interacting with the person. Perform coping mechanisms like breathing deeply or excusing yourself from the situation when you know you’re going to get upset or mad.

• Don't lie to people because trust builds better relationships . Loyalty and being there for your collegues is a great start to strengthen friendships. Getting to know the new people shows that you do care about what they like and it shows them that you want to get to know them and to spend time with them.

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