I totally understand what you're talking about. Well, I'm married for 4 years, and am in relationships with my husband for 8. And despite the fact we're both rally introverted I love to travel, and he.... Well, he feels more comfortable at home. But I'm lucky to be in a relationships where we can compromise. And we trust each other 100%, so I can go to a travel without any scandal.
But earlier I was really guilty in sacrificing my personal interests for relationships. And the most tricky thing about it that I did it with an unworthy person. And the truth is that these who worth sacrifices don't ask for them.