I hear you. We went through the very same scenario with our daughter. Except they didnt emphasize billirubin..
The hang up occured when doctors would talk down to us about vaccines/vaccine schedule. I would encourage you and @hippie-witha-gun to look over facts.. more deaths occur due to vaccine administration rather then contracting said "ailment" itself. Ask your doctor why they offer this stuff without liability for manufactorers? Ask if he (they have a vested interest in vaccinating children). Then tell him as you look at him straight in the eyes, "my rights to my child does not come in degrees."
We are planning on having another child within a year or two. We plan on having a midwife help. We sat down and met and spoke in great length to one shortly before our daughter was born. We loved her, she was so knowledgable and kind.
Unfortunately, we didnt get to use the midwife. But my wife is convinced (as well as me) this is the way to go.
Some insurances will pay 100% of cost, there are midwifes whom will perform for little to no fee. I'll chat with @hippie-witha-gun about it.
Best of luck, as always you guys in prayers and thoughts.
Thank you. We have done a lot of research on vaccines and will not be getting any. We have contact info for a pediatrician who will support our decision. We just have to make it through delivery.