Reality Check #17 || Make Yourself Sufficient

iamwhatiamnot (55)in #life • 6 years ago (edited)

You know what? .... One day you will be on your own!

Your mother will not be always there for you. Dad is not forever coming to your rescue. Soon, you will be on your own. Independence could be your greatest expression of freedom. Happiness abounds with someone who can live fully and independently from people's help or pressures. Occasionally, you need the lifeguard to fishh you out of the water. For the most part of your life do not wait for a rescuer. Attend those swimming lessons and be a lifeguard on your own.

It is time to leave the childhood dependence and move to adult self-sufficiency. It is good that you are more than enough. Therefore, mommy does not have to come. Meet challenges head on and learn from them and grow through them. As you advance in age, make sure that you do not engage in a relationship because you need the "other-half" to independence. Real love is meant to be shared with someone. If your love depends on someone, you will be into a lot of problems.

One reality in our life is to develop the full sense of maturity and learn to live on our own. Start handling life with confidence and be courageous in making decision for your future. You life, My life or Our life does not belong on other people's life, do not depend your life to someone else's life otherwise you'll be having a hard time handling your life in the end.