It's not being an asshole. It's doing what's best for you and it's essential if you want to survive. I know it's awful to say no or to speak your mind, but you have to, because if you don't put yourself first, who will? :)
It's not being an asshole. It's doing what's best for you and it's essential if you want to survive. I know it's awful to say no or to speak your mind, but you have to, because if you don't put yourself first, who will? :)
Well, my theory is that we should do better at recognizing the good and the effort in people and not being pushed in a position to ask ask ask ask ask. Which is annoying and always leaves both parties feeling cheated. Sure, ethical assholes by that definition might have a positive effect but there are costs. Personally, I am not a big fan of this system :)