This is a tough decision sometimes knowing who really needs help. You are just overwhelmed at the number of close friends and those with family ties seeking help at the same time.
All being said, we must remember that in helping others, we must not put ourselves at the mercies of others after rendering the help.
yeah that's very nicely said :)
thanks for your upvote
Well said. It would be quite sad to require help yourself after helping someone, wouldn't it?