Destiny, A myth

I have decided to start talking about life. No hand written scripts but a heart full of feelings and a mind full of thoughts.
Realizing the realities of life is the thing which can give us the desired comfort and happiness in long terms.

Achieving our goals can be satisfying no doubts and can give us the ultimate happiness we crave for. Being honest to ourselves about what we are capable of can give us relief even when we are on our way to achieving our goals.
Our Goals are mostly what we wish of, it can all not be achieved . What we do is, we wish for a thing and then start working real hard day and night for it without realizing if its even for us or not.

People who work real hard sometimes get successful and there are people who work equally hard but still do not succeed. There are people who do not really work that hard but still end up achieving what they wish, there are people who do not work hard and do not get succeed either, all this because of there destinies which are made out of mere wishes. But, this still does not mean that we should stop working on what we want because this could also be our destiny one day. We should just not limit ourselves to our wishes only and be open to the realities and other possibilities.

When I first moved here I had a dream of achieving something which I later on got to know wasn't for me. It took about 5 years to get over that and be stable enough to move back to reality, get happy with what I am getting and work on what i can possible achieve. There is a saying like we can achieve anything if we work real hard for it but what we do not realize is that we might lose what we have as of now by trying to achieve something that we do not have or something that doesn't belong to us.

Everything in life has a purpose and destiny might make us grow mature and get to perfection. No one knows what their destiny is. Our present is because of the thoughts and work we have done in past, our future will depend on our actions and thoughts in present. There is nothing we can do to overturn our present, it stays the way it is. We can only suffer and wait for it to expend itself.
Our future can be much more happy and according to our likes and dislikes though, only if we realize our true potential and look for what we are good at and give our all in it.

Lets think of the difference in fate and destiny, Destiny can be a mixture of education,hard work and dedication but fate can be sudden. We need to be at a place where we can be satisfied and happy with both, our fate and our destiny. Destiny for some is a misconception which is hard to understand. Lets look into this quote from Harry Truman
" Actions are the seed of fate, deeds grow into destiny"

whereas someone else said
" A man's character is his fate"

to understand it more lets look into what Kamran hamid said
"Fate is for those too weak to determine their destiny"

whatever we say or think my conclusion is that fate is what awaits us and destiny is what we dream of, dreams do not always come true but fate is surely going to get us one day.

Is destiny actually a myth to You guys? write your opinions below
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@hananali Peace & Love