oh just to be clear you didn't make me feel this way, it was just kind of a strange coincidence to see your post on a day that a feeling of dread that I haven't felt in quite some time re-introduced itself to me by way of a dream. Normally I like dreams, even the scary ones, but not tragic ones that were more like a replay of my own life.

We move past it though, and I think it makes me (and perhaps you if you handle it the same way) stronger to be able to relive past trauma, and come through ok on the other side. :)