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in #life9 years ago

Rediscovering That Which Brings You Joy


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There are activities in life that bring people joy. Whether they be RPG games, snowboarding, growing flowers, or fly fishing, any activity that engages the ol brain band and requires positive creative output from us is a worthy endeavor indeed!

There are many activities that bring me joy: horseback riding, playing guitar, gardening, cryptocurrency trading, writing, but there is one activity that truly gets my neurons to sing, and ha ha, that activity is singing.

I love to sing, and I spent most of my growing up belting out all manner of tunes. I sang solos in church productions, soprano in our school choir, led worship in our church, and was lead vocalist in an alternative rock band. My life was a soundtrack and I sang the lead.

However, adulthood and its responsibilities has a way of getting you to place activities that you enjoy doing on the "I'll get to it later" shelf. For the last fifteen years or so the only singing I have done was as I did the dishes or pulled weeds in my garden. I did as countless other adults have done, sidelined my joy-bringing activities all in the name of responsibility and adulting.

In the last couple of years there have been signs of life in my singing-in-public-for-my-joy sphere. Last winter I dressed up (as a retirement favor to my boss) as the "Snow Queen" and led Christmas carols at a local holiday. It was freezing, our audio speaker died, and I had to wing it acapella. It was pretty fun, although I might pretend it wasn't in the presence of my co-workers, for I don't plan on ever wearing that little clothing while simultaneously freezing my flintlocks off in a snowstorm like that ever again.

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A few months ago my neighbor and I had a conversation about our mutual love of music and singing, so imagine my surprise when she texted me the other day inviting me to join this acapella group that some people in her church were forming for a Christmas performance. With no hesitation I replied, "Heck ya I want to join!"

So, yesterday I found myself in her church's basement with a few other people. Before our rehearsal was over we were singing all manner of tunes, harmonizing like old pros. There was even some beat-boxing to behold, courtesy of our group's youngest member, and I found myself musing over the fact that every single person in our group had remarked how they missed singing so much and were so happy to be there.


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We were almost this jubilant, just sans tutu and savage dance moves...

Why do we as adults do this? Why do we shelve parts of who we are and things we love to do for the sake of whatever reason? I fell into this behavioral phenomenon like a chocoholic would fall face first into a chocolate pudding mud puddle. No hesitation, and in fact it was a completely unconscious decision. My stopping of performance singing just evolved like a bacteria fighting a resistant antibiotic, there was very little resistance.

As I read over the Latin of our group's version of "O Come All Ye Faithful," I felt something that I hadn't felt for a LONG time, that little seed of joy blossoming which erupts when one is engaging in their passion. If my nerdy little diatribe here can inspire one person to pick up that joy providing activity in their lives which they have neglected or keep someone from abandoning their joytivity, then I will be beyond elated!

Now, you'll have to pardon me, I have my part in a doo-wop version of "Away In A Manger" to memorize before next Sunday.


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Very true. That darn adulting always gets in the way. Glad to hear you getting back to the fun. :)

Thanks @old-guy-photos! Non-adulting on occassion for the win! LOL!

Good one...and very true in the sense of how to live our life.

Thank you.

Awe, thank you for the kind words!😊

Nice post withngood idea by @generikat
Wel done and perfect work mam....
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Cheers~~~~'

Well thank you @dinisanda! Hope you and your family are doing well!!

I let piano-playing fall by the wayside through several years of parenting and home-schooling, but have resumed it in the more-recent past. Arthritis and bifocals are handicaps I didn't have to deal with in my youth, not to mention slower reflexes for page turning, and I find I don't necessarily want to play the same kinds of music I played when I was younger. So I'm finding my niche again.

Ooh! I am so happy to hear that you are finding your niche! I hear you about the challenges of getting a bit older, although I am not in arthritis-land yet (I am sorry:o(), when I play my two hours of volleyball on Wednesdays I am finding that I can still do everything that I did when I was eighteen, it just hurts a bit more and takes a bit longer to recover, drat!! I would love to hear you play piano one day!!

This was an inspiring read. I know that feeling of taking care of “life” while the life is sucked out of you. Thankfully, I am doing what I love. Bravo to you for making time to sing and make joyful memories! Any chance there are some videos coming?

Ahh, @lydon.sipe, you have this wonderful way of condensing my wandering ramblings into concise, perfect idea statements! Thank you so much😊

I am so very glad that you are doing what you love, I am now doing that too, yay! If we can knock out a version of Penatonix' Mary Did You Know, then you better believe that I will ensure that there is going to be some video captured, lol! My brain hurts thinking about just my part in that arrangement!

I am brimming with excitement at the possibility of such an arrangement! :)

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