How well do you value people who sincerely love you, Do You Just Them as Some People Who Have No Option than to stick with You? Far, From It. Little Do You Know That Their Heart Is Falling Away From You Gradually.
It is common amongst humans not to value those individuals who really cherish them and most times the time when they want to make necessary amends, it gets too late for them and they are left with no other option than to live with a life of regret for the rest of their lives.
I am not saying this is the case for every person, but for most individuals, we do not seem to love most people as much as they love us.
The Parental Love.
Take for instance, while we were growing up as kids, our Parents tried all that they could, to give us all that we need, they loved us sincerely, but then we thought that they were not trying enough for us, as much as they try to make us understand that they love us, we seem to look far away to another place.
I once read a story of a young Lady who was raised by her single mother, her father left and abandoned her with her mother. Her mother gave all that she had to make sure that she gets the best education in life, her mother sacrificed all that she could and showed her all the love she could probably get.
But, the Lady was not satisfied with all the mother did, she found a young man who claimed to love her more than her mother and she started believing all that he said to her, as a matter of fact, his love looked more real than that of her mother.
So, while her mother struggled to get her school fee sent to her, the boy made her see reasons why it was not really important for her to get an education, so whenever she receives the money, she gives it all to the boy, who was deeply involved in drugs, with time she started dealing with drugs as well.
She started doing things that were dangerous to her health, the only time she realized how much her mother loved her was when she was dying, at that time her so-called lover was nowhere to be found, she called and left messages for him but he ignored her. Her mother cried her heart out, the young Lady who was now filled with regret wish she had just loved her mother half as much as she loved her.
What About Others Who Just Love Us?
There are some of us who not only have Parents that love us but maybe we are in a relationship with someone, who seems to care a lot, but we take them for granted because they have shown us that they love us so much. One thing I have discovered is that, the moment they leave, we might not find anyone who loves us as much as they have, so please cherish the gift of love if you have one.
If you have people, who will sacrifice all that they have to make you happy, never joke with it or make it look useless, rather cherish it with all you have got and give them more reasons to love you.
If it is your partner who loves you that you are taking for granted, they might not tell you, but the truth is that they might have no other option than to live without you since that is obviously the only option you are leaving them with, the fact that they act stupid because they love you does not make them dumb.
My honest advice is that you value what you have at the moment and cherish them with all that you have got so that you do not live the rest of your lives filled with pains and regret after they are gone.
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True words dear.. Most people don't have those who love them because they believe they will always stay but it gets worse when they are pushed to a point they no more care.. Then the scales come falling of their eyes..
That is exactly what happens.
Really touching story, it's ironic how we treat people that shows us true love. I've been a victim at a time in my life and I learnt from that, I'll treat the ones who love me right cuz it's better than chasing someone who doesn't love you as much as u do.
absolutely correct, please make sure you do that.
This is so accurate. I used to neglect my parents for a long time. Untill I was made to see something similar to this. My life had changed since then. Thanks for this truth @gbenga 👍
I am happy to hear that you changed towards them, our Parents should never be taken for granted.
Love the heart that loves you. pretty basic rule, hard to keep. we keep on looking outside
but, if only we can learn to keep the rule, our lives will be much more better.
Many times we tend to be oblivious to the people around us that really love us..... Thats y sometimes we need to take a step back from everyfin and jst appreciate the people we have in our lives
you are right bro
You hit the nail on the head. Really profound! Often times people get lost and take others for granted thinking they have no other option but to love us. The party showing so much love and care might say nothing but time will tell on their relationship. Value what you have while it's there never take it for granted
You are very correct, thanks
True talk darling, however,it is somehow painful in a situation where you are the one showing and giving all the love and the love is not reciprocated, you tend to slow down on the love showing and giving.
Nothwithstanding, It is necessary to make hay while the sun is still shinning. Love while you can because this life is but a little while. Hold everyone that comes your way dear to your heart.
I think it is just better to focus your love more on the people who really care for you.
Thats what they say. You will only value love once its lost. Sad reality though we tend to disregard those people who truly carea for us and looks for a love we dont deserve. Great post buddy!
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Mother is the one who gave birth to us and keeps us well. Father is also the one who seeks sustenance day and night for our basic and daily needs so that we can live in comfort. Mother and Father also give and care for us with affection. We must reward them well. There are various ways to repay our Mother and Father. Between them, we want to learn in earnest. For example, we learn and get a brilliant decision. Our mothers and fathers will feel like hanging out on us. In addition, we will honor our Mother and Father. We do hear and both our prayers are our Father. It would not hurt if we were dividing them up. In fact, it's for our good, too. As children, we need to help them. We can help them pack the house, flush the flowers, clean the yard and so on. We also can not even hurt our Mother and Father so that we will not become dhaka children and often deny their direction. In the beginning, we must love our Mother and Father as they love us we are small. Thus, our Mother and Father will not taste what they make for us it is not wasted so just as a sign that we appreciate their service wholeheartedly.
Thanks