Pain is....resilience! Pain is....courage....pain is ......change! After losing my husband suddenly, the pain I endeared had to be quickly tucked away, so that I could hold it all together and let life carry on for 3 busy athletic kids. They had to know that even though papa was no longer here, their lives would not CHANGE. They would still be able to do all the things that they did before. They needed to see this, they needed the comfort and assurance that everything would be ok. 7 years later and that very idea of comfort is what carried them successfully at this point to University, and simply enjoying life. Pain sometimes is necessary to value what is truly important! Thanks