"Guilt" or "Shame" what's the difference?

in #life7 years ago

It's a strong belief that guilt and shame are considered as two sides of same coin,but if it can be studied more deeply it will take vast directions in the purpose of discretion.A guilt is a kind of feeling that is just kept by ranges of an individual himself.Just he knows, about the real reasons and truth apart from all the facts.Society would be still unaware of actuality.In this state a person is more proactive and is aware of every little bit of details.Socially it's a more operative and improved opinion,because a person is not being exploited in front of individuals and his personality will be taken as confidential.However,he is emotionally more secured and not being afraid of the opinions.In other words,its a self examination to the will and power of a person.This will automatically exemplifies whole trait of person.According to lot of researches, a person who is in a guilt will feel more support and willingness to reveal the truth himself.

As matter of the fact, shame is a more complex and discouraging form of mistake.It's a destruction of a persons mental opportunities.In this manner,a person is being exposed publicly and his privacy would not be taken to limits.When people feel about the shame they think more of their self and feel powerless,worthless and exposed.People who are shame-prone can't really control their emotions and anger.This led to some fictitious operations,that will made them more exposed.

If we study a comparison between shame-prone and guilty persons,the people with guilt in their souls would be less reactive,angry and controlled by their emotions.They will apprehend their responsibilities and will be less addicted to drugs,alcohol or any other addictions.However,its an opposite response by shame-prone they will be less supportive,more addictive and not have a bigger part in performing the responsibilities.
The emotions and moral values are the two basic measures of these factors.The people with guilt and doubts in their minds does not commits any further unproductive activity,will be less aggressive while, shame-prone will deny their acts and will be more active in making criminal actions.
Shameful is a not useful as well as protective position.Unlike,guilt that provides more preventive and cautioned actions.
These factors are strongly bonded with social aspects.Every provision is emerged within the norms of the social scenarios.So people around the guilt and shame prone people should make them feel self-worthiness.We can make a productive sense of good or bad or even a state of guilt for better results,while have to show the encouragement and support to the people for their doings.It will automatically exerts a positive modification of deeds.Moreover,interventions targeted at emotions can reduce the criminal activities.Punishments does not work in a healthy way.For me we can save a person, by judgement between the action and the actor, providing him an environment of comfort and independence where he can ultimately take a strong decision.

Lastly i know one thing that "A person's simple wrong doing does not indicate his personality as a whole "

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