Wow @kimberleighfl. What a very potent post. I can image that recalling these events moment by moment must have really brought up some intense feelings. But isn't it awesome that now you can see and feel it all from a different perspective?

As long as there is blame or demands to get others to change, the experience of being a victim is activated. Once one takes 100% responsibility for their own experience and remembers that they are the foundational creator of their own experience, then begins the power to make change. They can rise above that victim vibration, choose what they really DO want, and set themselves free.

In my experience, it is hard for many to understand this concept, especially when experiencing such trauma at the hands of another. But, becoming an empowered being trumps being a victim in every way.

I'm truly grateful to see these transformations unfolding within you, as now your new found awareness will dictate your future. One day at a time, one breath at a time, and especially one incredible, remarkable gem of insight from @quinneaker at a time, will help you rise above!! Your entire family will benefit from this one simple act of responsibility. GO KIM!!!!

I'm glad to see you are writing here on Steemit. Not only is it great therapy to release the trauma and ideas held on to deep in the psyche, but you will likely greatly benefit others through your vulnerable and honest expression.

I'm also grateful to hear your acknowledgement that the @gardenofeden and the wisdom of @quinneaker are truly aiding in your recovery. That's one of the true reasons why Quinn has created this space. May you benefit beyond measure like many before you.!! May you also not be the last!!