Here is to the change!
By the way - nothing is personal. Bad comments are not to be taken personally. They reflect the commenter and not you.
I miss your posts!
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Yes I had to learn that the long and hard way, but now I know how to deal with bad comments and salty sad people. Thank you for your kind words and guidance
You are welcome. My guidance is lately (last years, that is) guided by the teachings of William Glasser: http://www.glassermsr.com/the-ten-axioms-of-choice-theory/
It all applies to us and it is true. When you are aware of these ten axioms and what they represent your life actually gets easier. You don't care less - you care more but worry less :)
Recently i have stopped worrying about almost everything, if I cannot control or change the problem I just don't worry about is, why should I stress about something I can't change? That's how I see it anyway.
Exactly. Remember - everything that you can really change is you and the situation that you control. You can't change others. You can only politely provide information. It is the choice of others what to do with this information. Again, nothing is personal.
Another important thing in life is that all frustrations / disappointments come from the gap between your expectations and the reality. Learn to temper your expectations towards others :) It's an art.
Have a great weekend.
Thank you for all your wise words, Hope you also have a great weekend!
i like your words ervin-lemark, im following you! 👍
@em3di
Thank you. Following you back.