Not as easy and not as hard as it seem

Being yourself wasn’t easy.
Being someone else that wasn’t yourself never easy.
Being yourself mean,being able to accepted yourself.
Your attitude,your way,your strengths,your weakness and everything about you.
Being someone else mean,you tried to change.
Good thing when you tried to change yourself to be someone else better.
Good thing when you tried to be better.
But,don’t changed to someone else,worst than your weakness.
Quite a lot,it happened.
When the patience,can no longer tolerated to disappointment.
We tend to changed to protest,because we just tired to be good when none see your good side.
I mean,none felt your worth,none appreciated you.
Had you ever feel this way? How was it?
Difficult wasn’t it?

So,how about those people who see you in those state?
Did they like of the idea of you being worst than your weakness?
Nope,they disliked it.Even,when they had no idea they are the reason you changed.
They only see you,your outer appearance which they could see.
Everthing get tangled right?🙂

You know,we actually hoping others to be good to us.
But we took them for granted.
As they saw their worth and run from the kindness they be,they possibly changed.
As they changed for themselves,we disliked it.
We judged them.Rather than finding other faults,had you ever trying to find your weakness?
Do you ever thought why they changed?
I guess,we should take time reflecting ourself often than someone else.

Well,it’s isn’t easy to accept the way we are.
It’s isn’t easy to accept the way other are.
But,if we look properly,it isn’t so hard also right?
Not as easy,but not as hard as it seem too right?
It all depend on us.

It’s hard to changed and hard to see someone changed away from their good side.
It’s very hard,to appreciated other also,and yes,that what made them changed.🙂

In conclusion,in my point of view:
1)accepted people with how they are and yourself
2)appreciated their worth or else they will
3)tell them they wrong if they are,but accepted the fact when they can’t changed.Give them time.
4)Reflected yourself

Having this thought,drawed me near to God.
As human,we tend to unable to accepted and forgive each other.
But God? God accepted us no matter how much we had sinned.
God forgive us no matter how we hurted him.
That how amazing God’s grace and love.

Something in mind steemians?
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God blessed.