The Gift of Singleness

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To every single lady out there who craves for the belongings of a man;its time to know you don't need him.

Relationship or marriage is not the prove of oneness or complement.
Being single is not a curse or punishment
Most people jump into marriage without know marriage has or comes with lots of responsibilities and it requires reasoning too.

If he breaks up with you;see it from the positive aspect and aim at being better.
Don't break down crying or even commiting suicide because of a man instead think of creative things;start a trade or business,but hold on to God.

Be confident and move on package, make him feel he's lost a diamond while searching for stones.

Men don't like consumers;they love producers. i.e Men hate dependent women or liability,instead of reducing the table.

I want advice some men if you want your women to be angels then create an heaven for them...if you want them to be independent and you know they aint working or have any means of income,support them,give them money or the capital and ask for interest not because you want it back but because you want her to be focus or manage it well.

I advice some ladies who ain't independent to stay away from marriage cause they might end up rushing out of it...If you ain't working or managing a progressive trade just keep marriage out of your list.

I can remember I asked my male friend back then in school the type of woman he would love to marry,he said "I don't want curvy or figured 8 lady oh,I want a well independent one that can back me up anytime"
I then asked him why he moved around with curvy lakes who he spents on if he doesn't want to marry any,he said "for enjoyment"
That back then his father said a man means
Provides money
M-morning
A-afternoon
N-night
And a wife means
W-wonderful
I- instrument
F- for
E- enjoyment(other room)lol

I was surprised when he said
That's the centuries meaning that his wife should bring enjoyment from resources

The society we are now
Men are searching for women with resources and brains not beauty without brains.
To me,a man is nothing;there is equality between the both sex(man and woman)the only thing that differentiate us is our sex organs
We are equal

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Society makes us believe that we have to struggle to feel among, buy fake or original designers,live a classy fake life,take nude pictures before you will be noticed
Instead of struggling to get all this material things,how about you struggle to be creative;make what people wear,don't go on social media making stupid Nude posts or trash and at the end not get paid for it
Come to Steemit, make quality posts,improve your skills,make difference and stop accepting the fact that you will end up in a kitchen
I guess in 2018,some men will be come house wives cause ladies are taking over the resources.
I respect @evelyniroh,she serves an inspiration to me even if she's sometimes not aware.

Many women want to look classy,am not saying being classy is bad,appearance matters but it wont last long...everything has time...

Don't strife to be known for what you wear or how you live a fake life,or have a curvy shape by buying pomade powder,eye lashes,expensive makeup,jeweleries etc that you know within you you cannot even produce,instead save and invest for your survival,all these expensive bags wont give you money in the next five years.

When you realize you've wasted your time it might be too late,don't let had i known come last..

Being single is not a plague rather it is a time to face yourself,challenge your self,make yourself have some innovative thinking.

There is time for everything and there is someone for everyone.

If you manage singleness very well,you will have time to prepare for marriage

Don't compare yourself with others cause you are unique in you own way,you just have to discover your self and work hard and smart towards achieving your goals.

Be complete first before looking for someone to make you whole.

Thanks for reading

My other posts
https://steemit.com/life/@emem/my-better-half
https://steemit.com/steemit/@emem/the-power-of-words