Tinder tutorial <3
Something I've got some questions about, and that is often brought up in festive settings are app Tinder.
There are many "dos and dont's" and I thought to write about. For it is obviously needed .. Tinder is personally not for me, but I can well understand why it has become such a popular app. It becomes a match so we know automatically that both find each other attractive, there is a check app and both agree it.
Now it so happened that there will always be more difficult for men to "get something" and especially via such Tinder. Enquirers are much greater if you are a woman and therefore must be able to stand out, but in a positive sense. I think many people forget the point of such an app, namely to get a lady interested .. So here comes some precious tips.
Your profile photo is the first thing we see and there will also be what we judge you on. How will you stand out? It is allowed to be a bit self-critical here actually and we can start with the wrong number 1, and it is quite obvious:
- Dick pics. It may well be you are proud of your body, but that does not necessarily mean it is so photogenic. I have yet to hear a girl say this is sexy. Misunderstand me correctly; we light on a penis, we just do not want it to be something we get right up in your face before we have seen your face.
Other classic mistakes:
Do not use an image that does not resemble you at all. Sometimes you are really lucky with a picture and you see the shit, but it's more luck than truth then you should not post it as your profile picture because that's how we expect you to look like.
Using a five years old picture from when you were fit or had hair is just wrong. What's the point? Chances are very high that she's going to write you once she sees you just because you have given yourself out for something completely different than reality. Now we live in a time when we have phone in your pocket and takes pictures every day, there is no excuse anymore to use old photos.
Frog Perspective. No dress to be photographed in that position. No. An intimate close-up of double chin di and possibly nose hair is not the first thing you want to show off.
Do not have a photo of you and another lady. Possible it is a friend, but it just looks wrong on the tinder and can be confusing.
Do you have children is there anything you wish you mention, but do not post pictures of you and kids. It is after all a dating app ..
You on a mountaintop .. Great that you are sporty, but be a little more inventive, there are so many who post such a picture that you will disappear quickly from the crowd.
Vacation Pictures. Same as with hike pictures this is something almost every post. It does not say a lot about you as a person, except that it is quite sad to see that you are one of the many tourists in 2016 which still is captured with exotic animals is drugged and chained in chain.
Select "props" wisely. Do you have a dog? Then it is just fine if you take a picture of you and your dog, it shows more of you as a person and thumbs up. You with a bottle of vodka is not as charming, when a girl from Toten seems you can nicely put put away the most harry pictures you have, it includes the hilarious picture of you at the party in Borat costume too.
Do not have your picture with other buddies, we see usually after the handsomest on the image and nasty about it is not you.
Do not hide yourself under caps and goggles, helmets and stuff like that hides your face.
Hot pictures. Yes- even here I have something to say. Even if you have a nice body, you do not pose "sexy" in the mirror naked .. It just gets awkward. If you post a picture of you shirtless so it must be in a natural setting, in the water, on a boat, etc. Have we seen more of your body than your face in the photos you choose to publish we would soon skeptical .
Your car. You might have an interest in cars, but the majority of the girls see it as just a means of transportation.
Posing together with your car. Not cool.
Selfie in the mirror. No..
So although the picture section is the most important, it is also important to have a catchy / interesting text. Possibly nothing if you have any doubts. Keep it brief, it is usually best. We will surely become better acquainted with you as your life story, we take later.
So you like exercise, watch movies, relax with tv, hang out with friends and have a party now and then? You described just John Doe. For something a little more exciting and descriptive than just that.
If you only have one qoute from a random movie will we not impressed.
The height of your. It you do not write, nor weight.
When you have been lucky to got a match, limit yourself a little. Do not be too excited, desperate and nasty. She liked your picture, the chance that you can get to a meeting is actually pretty great just to have a nice, talented man ..
Do not ask "why are you on Tinder ?;)"
Do not mention sex in the first three sentences. So desperate are you not? If yes, try to hide it a little better .. Supert if trying to flirt, but too much too soon is too much.
Do not overdo smiley use. We understand why you are on Tinder.
In short, you have to show your best side. Dating is in a way a sort of job interview where you have to sell yourself. You need not lying or embellishing the truth, but emphasize what makes YOU to just you and show your interesting pages. Have a good mix of images in festive settings and the other doing elsewhere in your life. Variety is important and you have to be inventive. Now I have written a few things 99% have on their profile and add out what everyone else does and you will be just a drop in the ocean. You must be a guy that looks like it's fun to meet! And finally; SMILE photos. Not bags or look sour out, when you see either feigned out or little nice Deferred we will see a happy and positive person!
And finally, I must add (since people have asked) that I do not have a profile there yourself, but it is apparently a couple of fake there after what I've heard. That ill do! Haha, it's obviously popular to create fake profiles of people, what them get out of it, I'm curious about the You never meet "me" when there is another person actually talking to. So a little background check on the man talking to might not be so silly it either ..
And I must surely also mention that women have a lot to improve the image front too. I had never used those pictures over here even though it's me. Drop scantily clad photos, too much makeup and styling, pout and push-up bra. And not least, the filter provides greater eyes and lips. Show YOU and not photoshop version ..
Think before you post photos @emeline
These are some great tips awesome job, upvoted.
Thank you <3